international82
Don Juan
Apart from DJMac23 and crazykid, is anyone here from Baltimore or even DC?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Baltimore/DC
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
FreeStyleZ
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I am, i didnt know crazykid was from this area though.
squirrels
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Baltimore. 
Imaginativeone
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Laurel Maryland here...
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
One on One
Master Don Juan
Western Fairfax County here. I'm more interested in practicing daytime cold approaches right now.
Miles Davis
Senior Don Juan
College Park... PM me if you want to link up
LucidDreamer
Don Juan
Alexandria, VA -- normally hang out in DC/18th street area.
Pap
Don Juan
Email [email protected] to join the DC Lair. Mention that Papa sent you.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
pimp in training
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im in the baltimore area. id like a wing, my friends are either in a LTR or stand in the corner the whole time at the club
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I'm in Pasadena which is about 20 min from Baltimore.
PocoDiablo
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I'm in Arlington, VA.
FreeStyleZ
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im from silver spring md.... 15mins from laurel, about 30 from DC
district_line
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im in hyattsville, about 10 minutes outside DC.
I'd be into meeting up w/ others. Guys I know are in relationships or old and lame.
I'd be into meeting up w/ others. Guys I know are in relationships or old and lame.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
