international82
Don Juan
Apart from DJMac23 and crazykid, is anyone here from Baltimore or even DC?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Baltimore/DC
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
FreeStyleZ
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I am, i didnt know crazykid was from this area though.
squirrels
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Baltimore. 
Imaginativeone
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Laurel Maryland here...
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
One on One
Master Don Juan
Western Fairfax County here. I'm more interested in practicing daytime cold approaches right now.
Miles Davis
Senior Don Juan
College Park... PM me if you want to link up
LucidDreamer
Don Juan
Alexandria, VA -- normally hang out in DC/18th street area.
Pap
Don Juan
Email [email protected] to join the DC Lair. Mention that Papa sent you.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
pimp in training
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im in the baltimore area. id like a wing, my friends are either in a LTR or stand in the corner the whole time at the club
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I'm in Pasadena which is about 20 min from Baltimore.
PocoDiablo
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I'm in Arlington, VA.
FreeStyleZ
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im from silver spring md.... 15mins from laurel, about 30 from DC
district_line
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im in hyattsville, about 10 minutes outside DC.
I'd be into meeting up w/ others. Guys I know are in relationships or old and lame.
I'd be into meeting up w/ others. Guys I know are in relationships or old and lame.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
