international82
Don Juan
Apart from DJMac23 and crazykid, is anyone here from Baltimore or even DC?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Baltimore/DC
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
FreeStyleZ
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I am, i didnt know crazykid was from this area though.
squirrels
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Baltimore. 
Imaginativeone
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Laurel Maryland here...
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
One on One
Master Don Juan
Western Fairfax County here. I'm more interested in practicing daytime cold approaches right now.
Miles Davis
Senior Don Juan
College Park... PM me if you want to link up
LucidDreamer
Don Juan
Alexandria, VA -- normally hang out in DC/18th street area.
Pap
Don Juan
Email [email protected] to join the DC Lair. Mention that Papa sent you.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
pimp in training
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im in the baltimore area. id like a wing, my friends are either in a LTR or stand in the corner the whole time at the club
Paintballguy
Master Don Juan
I'm in Pasadena which is about 20 min from Baltimore.
PocoDiablo
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I'm in Arlington, VA.
FreeStyleZ
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im from silver spring md.... 15mins from laurel, about 30 from DC
district_line
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im in hyattsville, about 10 minutes outside DC.
I'd be into meeting up w/ others. Guys I know are in relationships or old and lame.
I'd be into meeting up w/ others. Guys I know are in relationships or old and lame.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
