"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

SargeMaximus

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Had sex with that girl again.

When I got there she was chatting with someone (a guy by my guess).

Also, afterwards she wanted to go for a walk, so we went around her house and there were quite a few women out. At one point my girl said “that girl was checking you out… I’m not surprised” I said “yeah me either” also I didn’t mind her taking the lead on the walk but when I wanted to stop or go down a different path I did. But not to try and be dominant as a technique, just because that’s what I wanted at those particular times.
Anyhow, only had sex once because I came this time and my d!ck goes to sleep after that. Pic below of text
 

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Receipts of girl from yesterday \/
I can’t believe what I’m reading…seems kinda fake. But it just may be we interact with different kinds of women (plus our age difference).

I personally don’t talk about sex a lot, especially over text. I used to do this a lot to girls in middle school/high school (lol). But I realized when I escalated in person it always worked better. So I didn’t do it as often as an adult…but maybe it works? Or it could be my social skills when I was younger were **** compared to now (I was mega anti-social).

Mr. Sarg, how would you recommend escalating with women based on the info provided? I’m sure I can learn some stuff.
 

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I can’t believe what I’m reading…seems kinda fake. But it just may be we interact with different kinds of women (plus our age difference).

I personally don’t talk about sex a lot, especially over text. I used to do this a lot to girls in middle school/high school (lol). But I realized when I escalated in person it always worked better. So I didn’t do it as often as an adult…but maybe it works? Or it could be my social skills when I was younger were **** compared to now (I was mega anti-social).

Mr. Sarg, how would you recommend escalating with women based on the info provided? I’m sure I can learn some stuff.
Even text screenshots are fake to you guys eh? Can’t help you if that’s your honest belief. Anything I say will be just as fake I’m sure.
 

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I can’t believe what I’m reading…seems kinda fake. But it just may be we interact with different kinds of women (plus our age difference).

I personally don’t talk about sex a lot, especially over text. I used to do this a lot to girls in middle school/high school (lol). But I realized when I escalated in person it always worked better. So I didn’t do it as often as an adult…but maybe it works? Or it could be my social skills when I was younger were **** compared to now (I was mega anti-social).

Mr. Sarg, how would you recommend escalating with women based on the info provided? I’m sure I can learn some stuff.
Sarge is evidently a good looking dude to be so weird while still scoring.
 

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Sarge is evidently a good looking dude to be so weird while still scoring.
You’ve seen the pics of me I posted, yeah? It’s why I say looks don’t matter. I’m a good looking dude but have always had trouble with women
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You’ve seen the pics of me I posted, yeah? It’s why I say looks don’t matter. I’m a good looking dude but have always had trouble with women
I haven't but kinda assumed. It will definitely get your foot in the door though. If the chick is high interest enough, all you have to do is not F it up.
 

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I haven't but kinda assumed. It will definitely get your foot in the door though. If the chick is high interest enough, all you have to do is not F it up, especially if the female is younger.
That’s odd because most of my women lately have been older. This current woman is 10 years my senior and before her my regular fwb was nearly 20 years my senior
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I can’t believe what I’m reading…seems kinda fake. But it just may be we interact with different kinds of women (plus our age difference).

I personally don’t talk about sex a lot, especially over text. I used to do this a lot to girls in middle school/high school (lol). But I realized when I escalated in person it always worked better. So I didn’t do it as often as an adult…but maybe it works? Or it could be my social skills when I was younger were **** compared to now (I was mega anti-social).

Mr. Sarg, how would you recommend escalating with women based on the info provided? I’m sure I can learn some stuff.
Seems like this is a woman he already banged prior so this would be fairly normal. Once you bang a woman sex talk happens fairly regularly. At least in my experience and there is no reason to shy away from it after that, especially if you know you put it down and she loved it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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So I got 2 girls that want me this weekend. My regular and a new girl

I may be wrong but I’m going to list my reasoning for going with my regular girl instead of sexing the new girl. Y’all can weigh in if you’re not hating or trolling (I think I have most of the trolls on ignore anyways so it may not matter)

anyhow, pic below of the new girl text but here are my reasons:

New girl hasn’t proven herself to me sexually yet. You may say “well you haven’t given her the chance to!” And while that is true, it’s also true that I can’t just chase every new *****. Good girls need to be rewarded, and my current fwb has earned my attention.

I don’t wanna bump my regular fwb just because a new girl offers herself to me. I want it to be on my schedule, not the new girls’
 

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Had sex with my fwb today after a 3 week long break due to weather (it’s been awful). She texted me this morning at like 6am and again as shown below. Very strong interest.

We fvcked 4 times but only a decent length of time the first and last times due to erection difficulty. I think I may need to eat eggs in sex days as I can’t think of another factor that causes some days to be better than others.
 

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