"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

SargeMaximus

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Had sex with that girl again.

When I got there she was chatting with someone (a guy by my guess).

Also, afterwards she wanted to go for a walk, so we went around her house and there were quite a few women out. At one point my girl said “that girl was checking you out… I’m not surprised” I said “yeah me either” also I didn’t mind her taking the lead on the walk but when I wanted to stop or go down a different path I did. But not to try and be dominant as a technique, just because that’s what I wanted at those particular times.
Anyhow, only had sex once because I came this time and my d!ck goes to sleep after that. Pic below of text
 

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Receipts of girl from yesterday \/
I can’t believe what I’m reading…seems kinda fake. But it just may be we interact with different kinds of women (plus our age difference).

I personally don’t talk about sex a lot, especially over text. I used to do this a lot to girls in middle school/high school (lol). But I realized when I escalated in person it always worked better. So I didn’t do it as often as an adult…but maybe it works? Or it could be my social skills when I was younger were **** compared to now (I was mega anti-social).

Mr. Sarg, how would you recommend escalating with women based on the info provided? I’m sure I can learn some stuff.
 

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I can’t believe what I’m reading…seems kinda fake. But it just may be we interact with different kinds of women (plus our age difference).

I personally don’t talk about sex a lot, especially over text. I used to do this a lot to girls in middle school/high school (lol). But I realized when I escalated in person it always worked better. So I didn’t do it as often as an adult…but maybe it works? Or it could be my social skills when I was younger were **** compared to now (I was mega anti-social).

Mr. Sarg, how would you recommend escalating with women based on the info provided? I’m sure I can learn some stuff.
Even text screenshots are fake to you guys eh? Can’t help you if that’s your honest belief. Anything I say will be just as fake I’m sure.
 

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I can’t believe what I’m reading…seems kinda fake. But it just may be we interact with different kinds of women (plus our age difference).

I personally don’t talk about sex a lot, especially over text. I used to do this a lot to girls in middle school/high school (lol). But I realized when I escalated in person it always worked better. So I didn’t do it as often as an adult…but maybe it works? Or it could be my social skills when I was younger were **** compared to now (I was mega anti-social).

Mr. Sarg, how would you recommend escalating with women based on the info provided? I’m sure I can learn some stuff.
Sarge is evidently a good looking dude to be so weird while still scoring.
 

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Sarge is evidently a good looking dude to be so weird while still scoring.
You’ve seen the pics of me I posted, yeah? It’s why I say looks don’t matter. I’m a good looking dude but have always had trouble with women
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You’ve seen the pics of me I posted, yeah? It’s why I say looks don’t matter. I’m a good looking dude but have always had trouble with women
I haven't but kinda assumed. It will definitely get your foot in the door though. If the chick is high interest enough, all you have to do is not F it up.
 

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I haven't but kinda assumed. It will definitely get your foot in the door though. If the chick is high interest enough, all you have to do is not F it up, especially if the female is younger.
That’s odd because most of my women lately have been older. This current woman is 10 years my senior and before her my regular fwb was nearly 20 years my senior
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I can’t believe what I’m reading…seems kinda fake. But it just may be we interact with different kinds of women (plus our age difference).

I personally don’t talk about sex a lot, especially over text. I used to do this a lot to girls in middle school/high school (lol). But I realized when I escalated in person it always worked better. So I didn’t do it as often as an adult…but maybe it works? Or it could be my social skills when I was younger were **** compared to now (I was mega anti-social).

Mr. Sarg, how would you recommend escalating with women based on the info provided? I’m sure I can learn some stuff.
Seems like this is a woman he already banged prior so this would be fairly normal. Once you bang a woman sex talk happens fairly regularly. At least in my experience and there is no reason to shy away from it after that, especially if you know you put it down and she loved it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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So I got 2 girls that want me this weekend. My regular and a new girl

I may be wrong but I’m going to list my reasoning for going with my regular girl instead of sexing the new girl. Y’all can weigh in if you’re not hating or trolling (I think I have most of the trolls on ignore anyways so it may not matter)

anyhow, pic below of the new girl text but here are my reasons:

New girl hasn’t proven herself to me sexually yet. You may say “well you haven’t given her the chance to!” And while that is true, it’s also true that I can’t just chase every new *****. Good girls need to be rewarded, and my current fwb has earned my attention.

I don’t wanna bump my regular fwb just because a new girl offers herself to me. I want it to be on my schedule, not the new girls’
 

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Had sex with my fwb today after a 3 week long break due to weather (it’s been awful). She texted me this morning at like 6am and again as shown below. Very strong interest.

We fvcked 4 times but only a decent length of time the first and last times due to erection difficulty. I think I may need to eat eggs in sex days as I can’t think of another factor that causes some days to be better than others.
 

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