SargeMaximus
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That girl I went out with couldn’t wait till Sunday. Pic below
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Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Additionally, this girl gave me a bj last night. Unfortunately she’s very large. But things been slow lately so I’ll take itSo that girl who claimed her niece had a medical emergency and then ghosted just texted me. Pic below.
I’m going to tell her I’m glad she reached out and to definitely hit me up when things are working for her.
Had sex with her three times today and stayed at her place from 2pm till about 9:30pm. We talked a lot. We have lots in common but some things not in common. At one point she even said “omg don’t tell me xyz or I’ll have to wash my v@gina out with bleach” and I’m like “but I do like xyz” lol.That girl I went out with couldn’t wait till Sunday. Pic below
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why didn't you orgasm?Saw the fwb last night. Had sex 5 times including 2 times this morning. Never came once. We talked about how I see other girls and she’s down to share me. Says she doesn’t want to lose me.
I’m hoping she’ll be down for polygamy. Time will tell
I prefer to fvck for a long time and never orgasmWhy didn't you orgasm?
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Yeah I should have to her “I am fully vaccinated yes and I also have aids”I've been involved with two doctors who didn't give a **** if I was vaccinated because the ****ing was so good
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why did you pick that girl over the other hundred thousand choices from that location? Not being silly, just making sure you know there are many like that of all different ages and shapes. Did you already meet in person?Haven't posted here in a while. Asian girl (from post above) continues to show strong potential, but she is in the Philippines and they just had that typhoon. As bad as that is, I'm even more convinced she's not a fake girl trying to get money from me since she hasn't ever asked for any and instead just keeps trying to understand me and what I would want in a girl.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.