SargeMaximus
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That girl I went out with couldn’t wait till Sunday. Pic below
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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Additionally, this girl gave me a bj last night. Unfortunately she’s very large. But things been slow lately so I’ll take itSo that girl who claimed her niece had a medical emergency and then ghosted just texted me. Pic below.
I’m going to tell her I’m glad she reached out and to definitely hit me up when things are working for her.
Had sex with her three times today and stayed at her place from 2pm till about 9:30pm. We talked a lot. We have lots in common but some things not in common. At one point she even said “omg don’t tell me xyz or I’ll have to wash my v@gina out with bleach” and I’m like “but I do like xyz” lol.That girl I went out with couldn’t wait till Sunday. Pic below
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Why didn't you orgasm?Saw the fwb last night. Had sex 5 times including 2 times this morning. Never came once. We talked about how I see other girls and she’s down to share me. Says she doesn’t want to lose me.
I’m hoping she’ll be down for polygamy. Time will tell
I prefer to fvck for a long time and never orgasmWhy didn't you orgasm?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Yeah I should have to her “I am fully vaccinated yes and I also have aids”I've been involved with two doctors who didn't give a **** if I was vaccinated because the ****ing was so good
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why did you pick that girl over the other hundred thousand choices from that location? Not being silly, just making sure you know there are many like that of all different ages and shapes. Did you already meet in person?Haven't posted here in a while. Asian girl (from post above) continues to show strong potential, but she is in the Philippines and they just had that typhoon. As bad as that is, I'm even more convinced she's not a fake girl trying to get money from me since she hasn't ever asked for any and instead just keeps trying to understand me and what I would want in a girl.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.