SargeMaximus
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That girl I went out with couldn’t wait till Sunday. Pic below
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Additionally, this girl gave me a bj last night. Unfortunately she’s very large. But things been slow lately so I’ll take itSo that girl who claimed her niece had a medical emergency and then ghosted just texted me. Pic below.
I’m going to tell her I’m glad she reached out and to definitely hit me up when things are working for her.
Had sex with her three times today and stayed at her place from 2pm till about 9:30pm. We talked a lot. We have lots in common but some things not in common. At one point she even said “omg don’t tell me xyz or I’ll have to wash my v@gina out with bleach” and I’m like “but I do like xyz” lol.That girl I went out with couldn’t wait till Sunday. Pic below
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Why didn't you orgasm?Saw the fwb last night. Had sex 5 times including 2 times this morning. Never came once. We talked about how I see other girls and she’s down to share me. Says she doesn’t want to lose me.
I’m hoping she’ll be down for polygamy. Time will tell
I prefer to fvck for a long time and never orgasmWhy didn't you orgasm?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Yeah I should have to her “I am fully vaccinated yes and I also have aids”I've been involved with two doctors who didn't give a **** if I was vaccinated because the ****ing was so good
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Why did you pick that girl over the other hundred thousand choices from that location? Not being silly, just making sure you know there are many like that of all different ages and shapes. Did you already meet in person?Haven't posted here in a while. Asian girl (from post above) continues to show strong potential, but she is in the Philippines and they just had that typhoon. As bad as that is, I'm even more convinced she's not a fake girl trying to get money from me since she hasn't ever asked for any and instead just keeps trying to understand me and what I would want in a girl.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.