SargeMaximus
Master Don Juan
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No. F*ck off if you gonna be a haterWas "61" a typo?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
No. F*ck off if you gonna be a haterWas "61" a typo?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
How does me asking a question being a hater? Dude, you need to chillNo. F*ck off if you gonna be a hater
I’m being preemptive. Why would you ask the question unless you gonna follow up. And likely with some bsHow does me asking a question being a hater? Dude, you need to chill
Man, you need to chill. No one here is out to get you. You seem to have that paranoia.I’m being preemptive. Why would you ask the question unless you gonna follow up. And likely with some bs
Fair enough. I haven’t either but when I was living in Vancouver a few years ago I saw the fittest fake tit old woman ever and was so turned on. That and I like to get experience with all kindsMan, you need to chill. No one here is out to get you. You seem to have that paranoia.
It was a genuine and sincere question because I don't know that many, including myself that's ever banged a 61yo woman. I just wanted to see if I heard it right.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I hear ya. I banged 2 in my life. Both were cute enough to turn me on. They gotta have a cute face for me to be able to do it. And they gotta have the same submissive nature I like in all women.I respect your willingness. I would be getting laid more if I could lower my fattie standard. I am trying to become aroused by fatties, but my brain just says "No, we are not going to get with fat chicks".
How was it? Man, I'm quite a bit older than you and even I never fvcked someone that old. I've been curious but just never found a good opportunity.Fair enough. I haven’t either but when I was living in Vancouver a few years ago I saw the fittest fake tit old woman ever and was so turned on. That and I like to get experience with all kinds
I didn’t f*ck her I just got turned on. I don’t approach anymore remember?How was it? Man, I'm quite a bit older than you and even I never fvcked someone that old. I've been curious but just never found a good opportunity.
Gotcha. My badI didn’t f*ck her I just got turned on. I don’t approach anymore remember?
All good. I saw her in a Walmart. I swear the hottest b*tches I’ve seen are in Walmart with the exception of the only 10 I’ve seen in person who was in a grocery store and I enlisted her to help me find doritioes but didn’t get a number or anything.Gotcha. My bad
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Do what you gotta man. I believe that success, however small, will breed more success. I’m rooting for youMan you're inspiring me. I think I may just take viagra and get with a fat chick.
Generally women over 50yo will hit menopause. There's still debates on whether menopause wipes out sex drive in most females or not. I've slept with a few post menopause women who still had sex drive but had other symptoms like hot flashes and such. Some will have a hard time getting wet which then begs the question if they're truly into it as they were pre menopause, leading to my next point.Replied to the 61 year old this morning. She replied within the hour. We’ll see how things go but as it stands I think she’s into me
Thank you for the insight. Much appreciated.Generally women over 50yo will hit menopause. There's still debates on whether menopause wipes out sex drive in most females or not. I've slept with a few post menopause women who still had sex drive but had other symptoms like hot flashes and such. Some will have a hard time getting wet which then begs the question if they're truly into it as they were pre menopause, leading to my next point.
Some post menopause women though will sleep with someone just for the intimacy, conversation, and not to be alone. This can be masked as them actually having a sex drive and wanting sex. But in reality they cloak this for the above reasons I listed.
These are just some things to think about. So don't be surprised if it just ends up being starfish sex.
Keep us updated.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Yeah but the cost of food for me is insane. The grass is always greenerMust be nice to have that high of a metabolism. I have to shoot for around 1500 calories a day if I'm trying to burn fat.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.