"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I’m being preemptive. Why would you ask the question unless you gonna follow up. And likely with some bs
Man, you need to chill. No one here is out to get you. You seem to have that paranoia.
It was a genuine and sincere question because I don't know that many, including myself that's ever banged a 61yo woman. I just wanted to see if I heard it right.
 

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Man, you need to chill. No one here is out to get you. You seem to have that paranoia.
It was a genuine and sincere question because I don't know that many, including myself that's ever banged a 61yo woman. I just wanted to see if I heard it right.
Fair enough. I haven’t either but when I was living in Vancouver a few years ago I saw the fittest fake tit old woman ever and was so turned on. That and I like to get experience with all kinds
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I respect your willingness. I would be getting laid more if I could lower my fattie standard. I am trying to become aroused by fatties, but my brain just says "No, we are not going to get with fat chicks".
I hear ya. I banged 2 in my life. Both were cute enough to turn me on. They gotta have a cute face for me to be able to do it. And they gotta have the same submissive nature I like in all women.

but mostly I get the 5.5-6 chubby but still hourglass chicks with meh faces. Although I do think, judging by lately, I’m trending upwards in terms of looks. Say what you will, that 61 year old was a 7 in looks but imo age puts a negative on her to bring her back to a 5. Just like that 22 year old was a 8 in age but a 5 in looks.
 

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Fair enough. I haven’t either but when I was living in Vancouver a few years ago I saw the fittest fake tit old woman ever and was so turned on. That and I like to get experience with all kinds
How was it? Man, I'm quite a bit older than you and even I never fvcked someone that old. I've been curious but just never found a good opportunity.
 

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How was it? Man, I'm quite a bit older than you and even I never fvcked someone that old. I've been curious but just never found a good opportunity.
I didn’t f*ck her I just got turned on. I don’t approach anymore remember?
 

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Gotcha. My bad
All good. I saw her in a Walmart. I swear the hottest b*tches I’ve seen are in Walmart with the exception of the only 10 I’ve seen in person who was in a grocery store and I enlisted her to help me find doritioes but didn’t get a number or anything.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Replied to the 61 year old this morning. She replied within the hour. We’ll see how things go but as it stands I think she’s into me
Generally women over 50yo will hit menopause. There's still debates on whether menopause wipes out sex drive in most females or not. I've slept with a few post menopause women who still had sex drive but had other symptoms like hot flashes and such. Some will have a hard time getting wet which then begs the question if they're truly into it as they were pre menopause, leading to my next point.

Some post menopause women though will sleep with someone just for the intimacy, conversation, and not to be alone. This can be masked as them actually having a sex drive and wanting sex. But in reality they cloak this for the above reasons I listed.

These are just some things to think about. So don't be surprised if it just ends up being starfish sex.

Keep us updated.
 

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Generally women over 50yo will hit menopause. There's still debates on whether menopause wipes out sex drive in most females or not. I've slept with a few post menopause women who still had sex drive but had other symptoms like hot flashes and such. Some will have a hard time getting wet which then begs the question if they're truly into it as they were pre menopause, leading to my next point.

Some post menopause women though will sleep with someone just for the intimacy, conversation, and not to be alone. This can be masked as them actually having a sex drive and wanting sex. But in reality they cloak this for the above reasons I listed.

These are just some things to think about. So don't be surprised if it just ends up being starfish sex.

Keep us updated.
Thank you for the insight. Much appreciated.

I do actually hope she is looking for companionship. That way we both get what we want. I just want her for sex.
 

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Does anyone know if it's against the rules here to link to pictures off site? I know the threads only let you post 3 pics per post so I'm not sure. Thought I should ask.

Thing is: I have a great example of a convo where I do believe I gamed a girl from a "No" to a "yes". but it's many screen caps and I'm not gonna post them three at a time. I'd rather upload them to an image hosting place then link them in a single post here.

Also, talking with another girl, this one is 50 :eek: But man is she ever sexual and down to be used any way I want her. I wish most girls were like that. I swear sexual chemistry should play a role in the 1-10 scale.

Also, some insights I've come to realize help my game. These may or may not work for other users but they are things I've noticed work FOR ME at the time of this posting:

- Be ASSERTIVE. Not aggressive, not passive, but assertive.

- Be direct and sexual but also chat about non-sexual topics. She will usually initiate this. Just "follow her lead" and chat and build rapport until it feels like it may get stale, then go back into what you REALLY want to talk about: sex, and how you will fxck her

- Make her comply to you. For example: get her to do a google search if she asks you what something most people know is (Example of this in that convo I mentioned.) Then when she does comply say "good girl" to test her submissiveness

- Always test her submissiveness. See how far you can push the envelope to understand her boundaries. If she's not into something you are testing for, just say it's not a must and you rarely do it and were just curious. NEVER trap yourself into a situation where if she says she's not into it, you have to stand your ground and lose rapport. That said, don't lie. If it really is a deal breaker, let her know in an assertive but non-judgemental way and move on. You'll have much more fun with a girl who is into the sh!t you are, trust me.

That's all I got for now. G'night all
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Diet update:

Im soooo hungry all the time now. I had a little over 1600 calories to eat this morning alone. It’s like I cant get enough food. Eating healthy is hard since there are not a lot of calories in whole grain bread and veggies.

Boners are solid tho
 

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Spent the night with the 50 year old. Fvcked her 5 times. She said her back hurt this morning.

im hoping she becomes a sugar momma for me. In the meantime, still hoping to get younger girls. A few weeks ago I was fvck if a 22 year old. Seems I’m getting all types recently.

pic of the text between me and 50 yo below
 

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The 7.5 texted me last night at 10:30. I was at the hospital with a weird
Pressure headache. Turns out nothing is wrong but they did a covid test and want me to isolate before I get my tests back.

I finally got out of there at 2:30am. Went home and noticed the 7.5 messaged me again at like 3am.

I texted her back and we went into my situation and sex talk. Here’s a screenshot
 

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Omg guys. I saw that 7.5 again tonight. We went straight to her bed. I was in special pills to helps with ED and STILL no life in the D. Even after she grinds on me to oblivion. I think we must have no chemistry. No other explanation. This is the fourth time we were in bed, naked, trying to fvck and nothing.

I did get boners but whenever I put the condom in they got too soft for penetration I did get the tip in but nothing more. Like, just a disappointment. I really thought I’d be able to fvck her but no.

thing is: her pvssy isn’t shaved, doesn’t do bloj0bs, and seems she expects me
To just be turned in rather than it being her job to turn me on. Not submissive I guess. No chemistry. I honestly hope she doesn’t want to see me anymore but we talked about sunday. We’ll see. Hopefully she comes up with an excuse or else I’ll have to level with her.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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