"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

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Yeah but what can I take? Doc won’t give me viagra because I’ve had priapism in the past. My d!ck works finewhen I’m alone in my bed and with other girls but this girl I dunno something.
l-citrulline and l arginine and practice kegels, thats the all natural way
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Awesome thank you. This girl is a solid 7.5, I really want to rock her all night so thank you. Whether it works or not I appreciate the tip.
please, rock her socks off dude she really wants it, her interest level is high, because you rarely get 4 tries, its usually 3 strikes and you're out
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Was supposed to meet with that 22 year old masochist girl but she’s acting weird and I decided to tell her no.

its odd, I totally thought she was losing interest in me anyways so when I told her I wasn’t coming after all I thought she’d be in agreement. But then she’s all like “what did I do wrong?”
Smh. Gaslighting? Who knows. All I know is I’m not into a girl that makes me feel I don’t know where I stand with her. Next.

Also, this is like the umpteenth girl who has tried to call me then ask to hear my voice. What’s up with that? Not every girl does it but it’s happened with enough girls to alert me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I don't have any advice for you. But it's inspiring to see the results you are having being direct like you are. Even if you are having a hard time closing, there still seems to be interest in your bluntness.
Agreed. I’m losing them somehow but interest is high.
 

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Reading more of the DJ bible. Found a golden post here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-is-a-don-juan.30862/

My favorite part is this one: "
Before I start - ENGRAVE THIS IN YOUR HEAD:

YOU SEEK A LADY FOR YOURSELF. YOU DO NOT SEEK TO PLEASE A LADY - FOR HER.

Meaning that whatever u do, the girl is for you. You are not for her. SHE has to fit YOU. You do NOT have to do ANYTHING for her. "

Yet, being that way, I don't seem to be getting many hotties. I wonder if only when you are already high value male can you get away with this.
 

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Wow so I tried to screenshot my o line convo with a girl to post here but the app gave me a notification saying “hey that’s not cool” and went on to say that taking screenshots was against their privacy policy wtf
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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How long into the conversation before you brought up sex? After a couple messages? I am going to try and follow your lead and be this direct also, but want to do it right. The age range is 18-25 for these girls?
I message all ages. This one was 61 but she was toned and skinny with boobs. I figured SMV and my age would help me out.

If you want to get young girls I will post pics of my convo with the 22 year old I banged in my car a few weeks ago.
 

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Ok I can’t post any more screenshots from this app because it warns me every time I do and I don’t want to get banned because it’s the best site for me so far. Anyhow, after the convo in the pic below she simply asked if that was my number and I said “yes text me” then it was sexual talk over text and logistics. This girl lived at home and I live with my brother so the only option was my car. I spent no money on dates or anything. We had sex the first time we met but I came immediately. Then we finally met a few weeks ago and I ****ed her for a good 20 mins or so.
 

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The reason I asked about the age is because I was thinking this might only work within a certain age group. I was thinking with single moms, and females hitting the epiphany stage 28-37, this wouldn't work.
I don’t know but it worked on the 7.5 31 year old. I’ll post that convo too.
Edit: nvm convo is too long but it wasn’t as sexual but still a dtf screen post. She was fully aware our first date was going to be in her bed. Unfortunately my **** didn’t rise to that occasion or the other 2 with her but it was always straight to sex with the exception of the third “date” where we both just watched Netflix
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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