SargeMaximus
Master Don Juan
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No. F*ck off if you gonna be a haterWas "61" a typo?
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
No. F*ck off if you gonna be a haterWas "61" a typo?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
How does me asking a question being a hater? Dude, you need to chillNo. F*ck off if you gonna be a hater
I’m being preemptive. Why would you ask the question unless you gonna follow up. And likely with some bsHow does me asking a question being a hater? Dude, you need to chill
Man, you need to chill. No one here is out to get you. You seem to have that paranoia.I’m being preemptive. Why would you ask the question unless you gonna follow up. And likely with some bs
Fair enough. I haven’t either but when I was living in Vancouver a few years ago I saw the fittest fake tit old woman ever and was so turned on. That and I like to get experience with all kindsMan, you need to chill. No one here is out to get you. You seem to have that paranoia.
It was a genuine and sincere question because I don't know that many, including myself that's ever banged a 61yo woman. I just wanted to see if I heard it right.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
I hear ya. I banged 2 in my life. Both were cute enough to turn me on. They gotta have a cute face for me to be able to do it. And they gotta have the same submissive nature I like in all women.I respect your willingness. I would be getting laid more if I could lower my fattie standard. I am trying to become aroused by fatties, but my brain just says "No, we are not going to get with fat chicks".
How was it? Man, I'm quite a bit older than you and even I never fvcked someone that old. I've been curious but just never found a good opportunity.Fair enough. I haven’t either but when I was living in Vancouver a few years ago I saw the fittest fake tit old woman ever and was so turned on. That and I like to get experience with all kinds
I didn’t f*ck her I just got turned on. I don’t approach anymore remember?How was it? Man, I'm quite a bit older than you and even I never fvcked someone that old. I've been curious but just never found a good opportunity.
Gotcha. My badI didn’t f*ck her I just got turned on. I don’t approach anymore remember?
All good. I saw her in a Walmart. I swear the hottest b*tches I’ve seen are in Walmart with the exception of the only 10 I’ve seen in person who was in a grocery store and I enlisted her to help me find doritioes but didn’t get a number or anything.Gotcha. My bad
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Do what you gotta man. I believe that success, however small, will breed more success. I’m rooting for youMan you're inspiring me. I think I may just take viagra and get with a fat chick.
Generally women over 50yo will hit menopause. There's still debates on whether menopause wipes out sex drive in most females or not. I've slept with a few post menopause women who still had sex drive but had other symptoms like hot flashes and such. Some will have a hard time getting wet which then begs the question if they're truly into it as they were pre menopause, leading to my next point.Replied to the 61 year old this morning. She replied within the hour. We’ll see how things go but as it stands I think she’s into me
Thank you for the insight. Much appreciated.Generally women over 50yo will hit menopause. There's still debates on whether menopause wipes out sex drive in most females or not. I've slept with a few post menopause women who still had sex drive but had other symptoms like hot flashes and such. Some will have a hard time getting wet which then begs the question if they're truly into it as they were pre menopause, leading to my next point.
Some post menopause women though will sleep with someone just for the intimacy, conversation, and not to be alone. This can be masked as them actually having a sex drive and wanting sex. But in reality they cloak this for the above reasons I listed.
These are just some things to think about. So don't be surprised if it just ends up being starfish sex.
Keep us updated.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah but the cost of food for me is insane. The grass is always greenerMust be nice to have that high of a metabolism. I have to shoot for around 1500 calories a day if I'm trying to burn fat.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.