"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

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Yeah but what can I take? Doc won’t give me viagra because I’ve had priapism in the past. My d!ck works finewhen I’m alone in my bed and with other girls but this girl I dunno something.
l-citrulline and l arginine and practice kegels, thats the all natural way
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Awesome thank you. This girl is a solid 7.5, I really want to rock her all night so thank you. Whether it works or not I appreciate the tip.
please, rock her socks off dude she really wants it, her interest level is high, because you rarely get 4 tries, its usually 3 strikes and you're out
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Was supposed to meet with that 22 year old masochist girl but she’s acting weird and I decided to tell her no.

its odd, I totally thought she was losing interest in me anyways so when I told her I wasn’t coming after all I thought she’d be in agreement. But then she’s all like “what did I do wrong?”
Smh. Gaslighting? Who knows. All I know is I’m not into a girl that makes me feel I don’t know where I stand with her. Next.

Also, this is like the umpteenth girl who has tried to call me then ask to hear my voice. What’s up with that? Not every girl does it but it’s happened with enough girls to alert me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I don't have any advice for you. But it's inspiring to see the results you are having being direct like you are. Even if you are having a hard time closing, there still seems to be interest in your bluntness.
Agreed. I’m losing them somehow but interest is high.
 

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Reading more of the DJ bible. Found a golden post here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-is-a-don-juan.30862/

My favorite part is this one: "
Before I start - ENGRAVE THIS IN YOUR HEAD:

YOU SEEK A LADY FOR YOURSELF. YOU DO NOT SEEK TO PLEASE A LADY - FOR HER.

Meaning that whatever u do, the girl is for you. You are not for her. SHE has to fit YOU. You do NOT have to do ANYTHING for her. "

Yet, being that way, I don't seem to be getting many hotties. I wonder if only when you are already high value male can you get away with this.
 

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Wow so I tried to screenshot my o line convo with a girl to post here but the app gave me a notification saying “hey that’s not cool” and went on to say that taking screenshots was against their privacy policy wtf
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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How long into the conversation before you brought up sex? After a couple messages? I am going to try and follow your lead and be this direct also, but want to do it right. The age range is 18-25 for these girls?
I message all ages. This one was 61 but she was toned and skinny with boobs. I figured SMV and my age would help me out.

If you want to get young girls I will post pics of my convo with the 22 year old I banged in my car a few weeks ago.
 

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Ok I can’t post any more screenshots from this app because it warns me every time I do and I don’t want to get banned because it’s the best site for me so far. Anyhow, after the convo in the pic below she simply asked if that was my number and I said “yes text me” then it was sexual talk over text and logistics. This girl lived at home and I live with my brother so the only option was my car. I spent no money on dates or anything. We had sex the first time we met but I came immediately. Then we finally met a few weeks ago and I ****ed her for a good 20 mins or so.
 

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The reason I asked about the age is because I was thinking this might only work within a certain age group. I was thinking with single moms, and females hitting the epiphany stage 28-37, this wouldn't work.
I don’t know but it worked on the 7.5 31 year old. I’ll post that convo too.
Edit: nvm convo is too long but it wasn’t as sexual but still a dtf screen post. She was fully aware our first date was going to be in her bed. Unfortunately my **** didn’t rise to that occasion or the other 2 with her but it was always straight to sex with the exception of the third “date” where we both just watched Netflix
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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