"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

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Yeah but what can I take? Doc won’t give me viagra because I’ve had priapism in the past. My d!ck works finewhen I’m alone in my bed and with other girls but this girl I dunno something.
l-citrulline and l arginine and practice kegels, thats the all natural way
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Awesome thank you. This girl is a solid 7.5, I really want to rock her all night so thank you. Whether it works or not I appreciate the tip.
please, rock her socks off dude she really wants it, her interest level is high, because you rarely get 4 tries, its usually 3 strikes and you're out
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Was supposed to meet with that 22 year old masochist girl but she’s acting weird and I decided to tell her no.

its odd, I totally thought she was losing interest in me anyways so when I told her I wasn’t coming after all I thought she’d be in agreement. But then she’s all like “what did I do wrong?”
Smh. Gaslighting? Who knows. All I know is I’m not into a girl that makes me feel I don’t know where I stand with her. Next.

Also, this is like the umpteenth girl who has tried to call me then ask to hear my voice. What’s up with that? Not every girl does it but it’s happened with enough girls to alert me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't have any advice for you. But it's inspiring to see the results you are having being direct like you are. Even if you are having a hard time closing, there still seems to be interest in your bluntness.
Agreed. I’m losing them somehow but interest is high.
 

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Reading more of the DJ bible. Found a golden post here: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/what-is-a-don-juan.30862/

My favorite part is this one: "
Before I start - ENGRAVE THIS IN YOUR HEAD:

YOU SEEK A LADY FOR YOURSELF. YOU DO NOT SEEK TO PLEASE A LADY - FOR HER.

Meaning that whatever u do, the girl is for you. You are not for her. SHE has to fit YOU. You do NOT have to do ANYTHING for her. "

Yet, being that way, I don't seem to be getting many hotties. I wonder if only when you are already high value male can you get away with this.
 

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Wow so I tried to screenshot my o line convo with a girl to post here but the app gave me a notification saying “hey that’s not cool” and went on to say that taking screenshots was against their privacy policy wtf
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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How long into the conversation before you brought up sex? After a couple messages? I am going to try and follow your lead and be this direct also, but want to do it right. The age range is 18-25 for these girls?
I message all ages. This one was 61 but she was toned and skinny with boobs. I figured SMV and my age would help me out.

If you want to get young girls I will post pics of my convo with the 22 year old I banged in my car a few weeks ago.
 

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Ok I can’t post any more screenshots from this app because it warns me every time I do and I don’t want to get banned because it’s the best site for me so far. Anyhow, after the convo in the pic below she simply asked if that was my number and I said “yes text me” then it was sexual talk over text and logistics. This girl lived at home and I live with my brother so the only option was my car. I spent no money on dates or anything. We had sex the first time we met but I came immediately. Then we finally met a few weeks ago and I ****ed her for a good 20 mins or so.
 

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The reason I asked about the age is because I was thinking this might only work within a certain age group. I was thinking with single moms, and females hitting the epiphany stage 28-37, this wouldn't work.
I don’t know but it worked on the 7.5 31 year old. I’ll post that convo too.
Edit: nvm convo is too long but it wasn’t as sexual but still a dtf screen post. She was fully aware our first date was going to be in her bed. Unfortunately my **** didn’t rise to that occasion or the other 2 with her but it was always straight to sex with the exception of the third “date” where we both just watched Netflix
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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