Back on the prowl after 14 month monogamy. Seeking the missing keys

[FuzzX]

It really comes down to your fruit choice.. You don't mind mixing watermelons with bananas. That is not something I would ever do.

 

[FuzzX]

More SH*T. Dkirectly from the DJ Bible:

The real definition of a man, tried, tested and true. (Pook)
- Does not go through life walking on eggshells. Go for what you want
- Focuses on his dreams. A passion (art, music..), a life-long dream to own the world, etc
- Does not apologize for his testosterone, for his desires. Don't deny that you want to feel fullied
- Tries to always win in what he does. Never give up
- Has deep convictions that allows him to be a possible leader. Take control of your life
- Seeks to solve problems then to place blame. Act instead of complaining
- Sees failure as only a temporary set-back to the inevitable. Life goes on, your day will come
- Knows where he is going in Life. The life-plan and control of it
- Never loses his passion, for that would be the death of his soul. Heart, dedication to YOUR life.
- Never feels he has to prove himself to anyo





Yeah I have all that. Yet not much success with women. So that is CLEARLY not the way. What useless garbage.

He forgot to add, always punch under your weight class.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Diet Update Incoming!

Disclaimer: do your own research into supplements instead of blindly buying and trying. Some supplements don’t mix safely with medications or other supplements and can aggravate allergies or medical conditions!

So yesterday I had fenugreek and camomile just like usual, but this morning my boners are limp, difficult to get hard. The only differences from normal that I can see is I had 2 A&W breakfast sandwiches yesterday and a block of cheese at night. I'll try and eat my normal meals today with the fenugreek and camomile and see how things are tonight/tomorrow but definitely puzzling.

 

[FuzzX]

Diet Update Incoming!

Disclaimer: do your own research into supplements instead of blindly buying and trying. Some supplements don’t mix safely with medications or other supplements and can aggravate allergies or medical conditions!

So yesterday I had fenugreek and camomile just like usual, but this morning my boners are limp, difficult to get hard. The only differences from normal that I can see is I had 2 A&W breakfast sandwiches yesterday and a block of cheese at night. I'll try and eat my normal meals today with the fenugreek and camomile and see how things are tonight/tomorrow but definitely puzzling.

Holy fvck dude, how much do you weigh?

 

[SargeMaximus]

Holy fvck dude, how much do you weigh?

Dude get the f*ck out of my journal. I've reported you for your useless trolling. Get out.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Always seems after a dry spell things go on an upswing.

my one fwb just invited me to her place to **** this weekend.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I don’t know if this is because of my diet or not but today I notice how my sense of smell has been getting better. And today it’s very good.

for most of my life my sense of smell has been terrible to non-existent so this is a nice improvement. Like I said, I’m assuming it’s my diet. No idea what else could be responsible.

In other news, I texted the 22 year old and told her once she’s proven herself a good sex slave I’d want to take her with me to my fwbs so we could both use and abuse the 22 year old. She’s more than enthused.

One day I’ll be able to do this with 8-9’s but it’s good experience for me in the meantime

 

[FuzzX]

Dude get the f*ck out of my journal. I've reported you for your useless trolling. Get out.

I'm hurt. Geez and here I was thinking, hey the next time I meet a tranny, I can send him SargeMaximus' way...

 

[SargeMaximus]

I'm hurt. Geez and here I was thinking, hey the next time I meet a tranny, I can send him SargeMaximus' way...

You’re being a faux alpha douce bag. Go away

 

[FuzzX]

You’re being a faux alpha douce bag. Go away

No problem amigo, you already reported me for hurt feelings. I'll give you some safe space.

 

[SargeMaximus]

No problem amigo, you already reported me for hurt feelings. I'll give you some safe space.

For trolling, not hurt feelings. Adios boyo

 

[SargeMaximus]

So last night I matched with a cute 7/10 nurse or doctor (judging by the pic with her in scrubs and a stethoscope) and I immediately thought of a post I read on here how nurses usually look for the high value males like doctors and such, so going into it I already felt out of my element but anyways I proceeded as normal and she seemed to just get angry at me. Our short convo went like this:

me: hey trouble

her: (a day later) why trouble

me: (about an hour later or something) why not?

her: why not? Ok why not u shut up

me: That’s uncalled for

she read the message and no reply.

I don’t know if this is a **** test or a genuinely angry and put off response by her. I have had this before but obviously, no apologies and no trying to make things right from my end. Seems that one is a dead end.

 

[Lookatu]

I read on here how nurses usually look for the high value males like doctors and such

her: why not? Ok why not u shut up

First of all, the nurse thing looking for high value males is absolutely false. I've been out with over half dozen nurses and know people in the field as well. So get that out of your mind. There's also various types of nurses. The RN type is towards the top so they maybe looking for someone either with high smv or someone that brings something to the table.

Sounds like she has a short fuse and is a bitter person(just in general or from being on OLD too long). If her response was followed by some kind of wink or emoji to let you know she was joking around, that would be understandable. But you could've also improved in your texting with better banter/wit IMO.

Unmatch her and move on...

 

[SargeMaximus]

First of all, the nurse thing looking for high value males is absolutely false. I've been out with over half dozen nurses and know people in the field as well. So get that out of your mind. There's also various types of nurses. The RN type is towards the top so they maybe looking for someone either with high smv or someone that brings something to the table.

Sounds like she has a short fuse and is a bitter person(just in general or from being on OLD too long). If her response was followed by some kind of wink or emoji to let you know she was joking around, that would be understandable. But you could've also improved in your texting with better banter/wit IMO.

Unmatch her and move on...

Thanks, yeah I’m not good at wit and banter but I’m with you in that she just seems to be bitter and imo not worth the effort.

 

[SargeMaximus]

She sounds too full of herself/uptight. After her saying "why trouble", it seems like you missed an opportunity to have made her qualify with a statement, and lighten her mood instead of a question. I would have said something like "because you look naughty/dangerous" I don't know if that would be good text game though... Maybe more experienced djs can chime in.

Yes that’s an interesting perspective. One of the pua tips I’ve incorporated in order to not follow her frame or be dominant is to answer her question with another question. I mostly do it when I don’t see the question as one that needs to be answered. It’s different if a girl asks about stds or birth control for example. In those kinds of cases I answer honestly. But when she’s being a b*tch or trying to gain frame, I answer with another question

 

[SargeMaximus]

Damn, I think I lost a girl I just met online. We were talking about fwb and she seemed down. I told her to text me if she was. It took a while and then she did, but she has the same name as another fwb of Mine, so when she texted “hey it’s name” I was like “new phone?” And she’s like “no, why?” And I’m like “because this is a different number than your other one”

then I realized so I texted her again “oh ****, that’s a different name, glad you made it” but she hasn’t responded all day.

Its weird but even as a fwb girls seem to want you to be monogamous

 

[SargeMaximus]

Had an interesting interaction online today. This goes with the question of “too much or too little interest” that was brought up in the “Low interest or super guarded” thread.

basically I was talking with this woman and she had said she had just joined the sight and was overwhelmed .
I said “yeah lots of thirsty guys” to which she replied “yeah, except for you. You are the only guy who hasn’t come at me with some line”

I forget what I said in response but she thanked me and I said “Yw” but then ghosted. I tried to reinitiate but still no reply.

I just found it intriguing how by her own admission I wasn’t acting like the other desperate men, yet she wasn’t interested in me. Proof that being too “non-needy” can hinder you at times

 

[SargeMaximus]

My brother is acting strange. If I didn't know better I'd think he's afraid of me or feeling guilty towards me about something.

I went on a date with a girl today while he was out of the house. When I got back he was asking where I had been. Sounded like fear in his voice.

Then as I was making food for myself he was like "oh btw you can have as much of that pizza as you want" referring to our weekly pizza we normally split but he randomly paid for this week.

I dunno it just seemed very strange. Out of character.

Then again, lots of changes happening to how people acting towards me lately.

Speaking of, my fwb I have plans to see this weekend, I feel like she's distancing herself from me sometimes, but then a few weeks ago she was telling me how she was afraid she'd say or do the wrong thing and lose me. I told her as long as she kept pleasing me sexually, she wouldn't have to worry about it. Not sure if that was her genuinely voicing her concerns or trying to bait me into saying the same thing.

Reading stuff on this forum can make me see things in a different perspective. Anyhow, off to bed.

 

[SargeMaximus]

So fwb has cancelled on me. I’m not surprised tbh. Had a feeling after reading some things in this forum that I was being too eager to see her.

she basically texted saying she’s hitting an emotional wall, whatever that means, and had to “sit in it”.
My money is she means she needs to ride another guys ****.

either way it brings me back to the whole reason I’m on this site: I need to improve my game but I need to do it in ways that are effective.
I already see some things I can improve on from the posts I’ve read here and I’ll keep looking for golden nuggets in the DJ bible.

 

[SargeMaximus]

I said “all good, take care of yourself” She replied with “thanks. I’m sorry to be such a bummer”

I didn’t reply