"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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So I'm going to ask this girl from school out but.....

How do you deal with the awkwardness if your rejected? I've known her a long time but recently I feel I should just fvckin go for it ye know?
Any advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Just do it. What do you have to lose? **** awkwardness, go for the throat.

Awkwardness is just another feeling. If it doesn't work, bah, who cares?
Theres like 3 billion other women on this planet.
 
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First ask yourself whether you want her in your life as a friend, and if she is a good friend at the moment. Dont think that its guaranteed to be awkward if she says no. It may be that it strengthens your friendship, or opens up an opportunity in the future.

Personally I think you should ask her.
 
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Thanks for the encouragement guys...

I suppose I really have nothing to lose.
 
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NorwegianDJ said:
First ask yourself whether you want her in your life as a friend, and if she is a good friend at the moment. Dont think that its guaranteed to be awkward if she says no. It may be that it strengthens your friendship, or opens up an opportunity in the future.

Personally I think you should ask her.
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id agree with DJ. good luck
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Dude who gives a fvck! Go do it. There's nothing to be excited/scared about.
Just have the Faith, Desire, and action(having balls) to ask her out. Guarantee win or lose, you will be happy you did it. Trust me.
 
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