"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Awkwardness if rejected?

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Fionn

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So I'm going to ask this girl from school out but.....

How do you deal with the awkwardness if your rejected? I've known her a long time but recently I feel I should just fvckin go for it ye know?
Any advice?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Just do it. What do you have to lose? **** awkwardness, go for the throat.

Awkwardness is just another feeling. If it doesn't work, bah, who cares?
Theres like 3 billion other women on this planet.
 
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First ask yourself whether you want her in your life as a friend, and if she is a good friend at the moment. Dont think that its guaranteed to be awkward if she says no. It may be that it strengthens your friendship, or opens up an opportunity in the future.

Personally I think you should ask her.
 
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Thanks for the encouragement guys...

I suppose I really have nothing to lose.
 
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NorwegianDJ said:
First ask yourself whether you want her in your life as a friend, and if she is a good friend at the moment. Dont think that its guaranteed to be awkward if she says no. It may be that it strengthens your friendship, or opens up an opportunity in the future.

Personally I think you should ask her.
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id agree with DJ. good luck
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude who gives a fvck! Go do it. There's nothing to be excited/scared about.
Just have the Faith, Desire, and action(having balls) to ask her out. Guarantee win or lose, you will be happy you did it. Trust me.
 
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