"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Awkwardness if rejected?

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So I'm going to ask this girl from school out but.....

How do you deal with the awkwardness if your rejected? I've known her a long time but recently I feel I should just fvckin go for it ye know?
Any advice?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Just do it. What do you have to lose? **** awkwardness, go for the throat.

Awkwardness is just another feeling. If it doesn't work, bah, who cares?
Theres like 3 billion other women on this planet.
 
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First ask yourself whether you want her in your life as a friend, and if she is a good friend at the moment. Dont think that its guaranteed to be awkward if she says no. It may be that it strengthens your friendship, or opens up an opportunity in the future.

Personally I think you should ask her.
 
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Thanks for the encouragement guys...

I suppose I really have nothing to lose.
 
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NorwegianDJ said:
First ask yourself whether you want her in your life as a friend, and if she is a good friend at the moment. Dont think that its guaranteed to be awkward if she says no. It may be that it strengthens your friendship, or opens up an opportunity in the future.

Personally I think you should ask her.
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id agree with DJ. good luck
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dude who gives a fvck! Go do it. There's nothing to be excited/scared about.
Just have the Faith, Desire, and action(having balls) to ask her out. Guarantee win or lose, you will be happy you did it. Trust me.
 
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