"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Awkwardness if rejected?

Fionn

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So I'm going to ask this girl from school out but.....

How do you deal with the awkwardness if your rejected? I've known her a long time but recently I feel I should just fvckin go for it ye know?
Any advice?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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novaknight

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Just do it. What do you have to lose? **** awkwardness, go for the throat.

Awkwardness is just another feeling. If it doesn't work, bah, who cares?
Theres like 3 billion other women on this planet.
 

NorwegianDJ

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First ask yourself whether you want her in your life as a friend, and if she is a good friend at the moment. Dont think that its guaranteed to be awkward if she says no. It may be that it strengthens your friendship, or opens up an opportunity in the future.

Personally I think you should ask her.
 

Fionn

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Thanks for the encouragement guys...

I suppose I really have nothing to lose.
 

novaknight

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NorwegianDJ said:
First ask yourself whether you want her in your life as a friend, and if she is a good friend at the moment. Dont think that its guaranteed to be awkward if she says no. It may be that it strengthens your friendship, or opens up an opportunity in the future.

Personally I think you should ask her.
id agree with DJ. good luck
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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StateOfMind

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Dude who gives a fvck! Go do it. There's nothing to be excited/scared about.
Just have the Faith, Desire, and action(having balls) to ask her out. Guarantee win or lose, you will be happy you did it. Trust me.
 
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