"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Attractive Charissa Thompson Getting Divorced for 2nd Time at Age 40 & is Childless
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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She's on the slide. That said, when I think of harridan, I think of this 48 year-old.
My mortifying moment at the Christmas party and why it's hell to be 48, alone and desperate
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Charissa Thompson looks like nothing like this woman. Charissa Thompson has a younger, rich boyfriend, who is both younger and richer than her ex-husband. Her ex-husband was a fit, rich guy as an ex-college athlete turned sports agent with a law degree.She's on the slide. That said, when I think of harridan, I think of this 48 year-old.
View attachment 10124My mortifying moment at the Christmas party and why it's hell to be 48, alone and desperate
The Christmas party was in full swing. Brandishing a branch of mistletoe, I danced across the room and locked eyes with the stranger in the corner...www.dailymail.co.uk
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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See the linked video from 2013 in my quote. Both Erin and Charissa have gone downhill since then. They were 31 and 35 when that video was made. Now 41 and 45.
Yeah, they were two classic blond bombshells back then but that doesn’t last forever. Charissa is on the divorce cycle while Erin is trying to cheat fertility by unfreezing her eggs. Best of luck ladies
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They both peaked somewhere on looks in the 2000s. Arguably, Charissa's peak was finished before she joined ESPN in 2010 before moving to Fox Sports in 2013. The Erin Andrew stalker peephole incident was in 2008 when she was 30 and that was the tail end of her prime, though the video did not make it on to the internet until 2009. They've both managed to live off their looks peak 10+ years beyond their looks peak. Both of their jobs are looks-oriented jobs.
Charissa has had 2 short marriages. One was in the late 2000s and the 2nd was in 2021-2022. In between those marriages, Charissa did acknowledge that she was not well suited to marriage. Charissa's 2nd marriage was a pandemic lockdown overreaction.
Erin has a bit of a cleat and status chaser. She had cervical cancer in 2016 at age 38, likely caused by HPV from her carousel riding. Erin is 45 now and not pregnant. The IVF window has closed. If she really wanted kids, adopting kids with her husband 5-8 years ago would have been the easier path to get to kids. Erin's marriage has lasted to this point but longevity is not an indicator of quality.
There were 2 IVF pregnancies in my social circle from women in their mid-30s. Both of these women made big and bold social media pronouncements about their IVF struggles when they got pregnant.
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So the only logical conclusion is that despite their financial success, something's got to be very messed up with them. I can't imagine a rational, authentic man looking into the eyes of a twice divorced (that's on top of her other relationships) woman and believing anything love related she says.
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She's spent her late 30s and early 40s in relationships with top tier men. Her current boyfriend is extremely rich whereas her last husband who she started dating at 36/37 was 6'0"+ ex-college athlete and sports agent with a law degree.
The Wall has not hit Charissa Thompson at 41.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
NFL broadcaster Charissa Thompson reveals her home was burglarized: 'Holy s--- I’ve just been robbed'
Thompson said she already had an issue with security, noting that she had been stalked at her old house, and she has been hacked in the past.
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Who stalks a twice-divorced 41 year old woman? Dont tell me there is a lot of demand for them.
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There are some demand out there for Charissa's vag. She has a rich, younger boyfriend at 41.
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Do you not get out much? Live at your computers in a weird echo chamber? Is it a way to assuage your ego?
Because they are getting hit on by guys younger and more attractive than you all incessantly.
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There is demand for 40 year old women out there.
Charissa Thompson would be considered a top 40-41 year old woman. She is famous and all the beta males would like that she has some level of spectator sports knowledge.
There are 40 year old women whose looks are similar to Charissa's and are childless like Charissa. If they put themselves out on dating apps or are active on Instagram, they have more options than most men can imagine.
A 40 year old childless woman who isn't overweight and isn't on the swipe apps will have fewer options. Her options will depend upon her social circle and how often she goes out into the real world. She'll still have solid demand for her vag though.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Rebound Relationships | Calm Down Podcast #shorts
"I like being in a relationship. I hate dating." - Charissa Thompson
Charissa Thompson is a middle aged 304.
In other news, Charissa's BFF Erin Andrews became a first time mom at age 45 a few weeks ago due to surrogacy.
Erin Andrews opens up about new baby, '10 years of hell' battling infertility
@Pierce.Manhammer -- Erin's new motherhood at 45 sounds a lot like the woman who inspired the thread below.
Oh you guys are gunna love this...
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Why Marriage Is Not For Everyone | Calm Down Podcast #shorts
Charissa got married twice with the expectation that she would mimic her parents' track record of longevity in a marriage. Right now, Charissa is 41 and her parents have been married 45 years (likely in the same relationships for 47-48 years).
A lot of people get married because their parents had a successful marriage and that's their expectation. The problem is that these parents all married in a different era with different societal expectations. The last sentence was more true for Baby Boomers and most Gen X'ers as compared to the tail end of Gen X'ers and Millennials.
Charissa's parents married in the late 1970s, a time of transition. Plenty of people who married in the late 1970s got divorced, usually by 2005 at the latest.
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Incorrect. Her primary employer is Fox Sports. She has been working at Fox Sports since 2013, though she did work at ESPN from 2010-2013.
She was also working at the Big Ten Network and at Fox Sports prior to ESPN.
Men having been lining up for her since the 2000s.
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Sports is sports, even ugly chicks on the side lines are gonna get some, just gotta wait down river, something gonna come her way.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.