Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She's on the slide. That said, when I think of harridan, I think of this 48 year-old.Charissa Thompson turned 41 last week. @MatureDJ might now call her a harridan. She is still better looking than the typical late 30s/early 40s woman.
Charissa's BFF Erin Andrews turned 45 last week.

Charissa Thompson looks like nothing like this woman. Charissa Thompson has a younger, rich boyfriend, who is both younger and richer than her ex-husband. Her ex-husband was a fit, rich guy as an ex-college athlete turned sports agent with a law degree.She's on the slide. That said, when I think of harridan, I think of this 48 year-old.![]()
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My mortifying moment at the Christmas party and why it's hell to be 48, alone and desperate
The Christmas party was in full swing. Brandishing a branch of mistletoe, I danced across the room and locked eyes with the stranger in the corner...www.dailymail.co.uk
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
This will be her after a few more divorces. Beauty is a depreciating asset, especially for women. Sorry, can’t fight my own biology. Granny here with the saggy t!ts and wrinkled skin is cringe worthy.
See the linked video from 2013 in my quote. Both Erin and Charissa have gone downhill since then. They were 31 and 35 when that video was made. Now 41 and 45.This is how Charissa and BFF Erin Andrews looked in Summer 2013 when Charissa joined Fox Sports from ESPN. Both Erin and Charissa worked at ESPN prior to Fox Sports.
Yeah, they were two classic blond bombshells back then but that doesn’t last forever. Charissa is on the divorce cycle while Erin is trying to cheat fertility by unfreezing her eggs. Best of luck ladiesSee the linked video from 2013 in my quote. Both Erin and Charissa have gone downhill since then. They were 31 and 35 when that video was made. Now 41 and 45.
They both peaked somewhere on looks in the 2000s. Arguably, Charissa's peak was finished before she joined ESPN in 2010 before moving to Fox Sports in 2013. The Erin Andrew stalker peephole incident was in 2008 when she was 30 and that was the tail end of her prime, though the video did not make it on to the internet until 2009. They've both managed to live off their looks peak 10+ years beyond their looks peak. Both of their jobs are looks-oriented jobs.Yeah, they were two classic blond bombshells back then but that doesn’t last forever. Charissa is on the divorce cycle while Erin is trying to cheat fertility by unfreezing her eggs.
She's spent her late 30s and early 40s in relationships with top tier men. Her current boyfriend is extremely rich whereas her last husband who she started dating at 36/37 was 6'0"+ ex-college athlete and sports agent with a law degree.I have no clue why any guy in his right mind would pursue a relationship, let alone marriage with a woman like this.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Charissa Thompson's house got robbed.
There are some demand out there for Charissa's vag. She has a rich, younger boyfriend at 41.Who stalks a twice-divorced 41 year old woman? Dont tell me there is a lot of demand for them.
There is demand for 40 year old women out there.Seriously what Universe do you guys live in that you think an attractive 40 year old isn’t getting hit on nonstop?
Do you not get out much? Live at your computers in a weird echo chamber? Is it a way to assuage your ego?
Because they are getting hit on by guys younger and more attractive than you all incessantly.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Incorrect. Her primary employer is Fox Sports. She has been working at Fox Sports since 2013, though she did work at ESPN from 2010-2013.She works at ESPN, there is a line up of dudes out the door no doubt
Sports is sports, even ugly chicks on the side lines are gonna get some, just gotta wait down river, something gonna come her way.Incorrect. Her primary employer is Fox Sports. She has been working at Fox Sports since 2013, though she did work at ESPN from 2010-2013.
She was also working at the Big Ten Network and at Fox Sports prior to ESPN.
Men having been lining up for her since the 2000s.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.