"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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'At least you made a move on her!'

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Ok, so on a third date with a very fit 43 year old and we are all over each other on my couch so I run my hands over her stomach and down....but at this point she proclaims 'Stop it I don't know you!' so I jokingly pull her top down over her jeans. So after more kissing and touching I try again but get the same response. She leaves after some move kissing. I never see her again. Next!

So a week later I see my mate and his wife and the topic of my datin comes up and tell her the story. She say's 'At least you made a move on her, would be weird if you didn't!'

Now chaps, this is comming from a very well rounded woman so take this as a tip and remember 'Rejection is better than regret!'
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Alex DeLarge

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Yup.. It's like striking out in baseball while looking at the ball and not taking a swing.
 

bilboteabaggins

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all about timing and when it feels right to make the moves, at that point resistance will be a non issue ;)
 

Demonicale

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what about if your mind has a complete mental block about rejaction?... how do you beat that **** down?.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Demonicale said:
what about if your mind has a complete mental block about rejaction?... how do you beat that **** down?.
Keep doing something that is uncomfortable until your comfortable with it.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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