"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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'At least you made a move on her!'

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Ok, so on a third date with a very fit 43 year old and we are all over each other on my couch so I run my hands over her stomach and down....but at this point she proclaims 'Stop it I don't know you!' so I jokingly pull her top down over her jeans. So after more kissing and touching I try again but get the same response. She leaves after some move kissing. I never see her again. Next!

So a week later I see my mate and his wife and the topic of my datin comes up and tell her the story. She say's 'At least you made a move on her, would be weird if you didn't!'

Now chaps, this is comming from a very well rounded woman so take this as a tip and remember 'Rejection is better than regret!'
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alex DeLarge

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Yup.. It's like striking out in baseball while looking at the ball and not taking a swing.
 

bilboteabaggins

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all about timing and when it feels right to make the moves, at that point resistance will be a non issue ;)
 

Demonicale

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what about if your mind has a complete mental block about rejaction?... how do you beat that **** down?.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Demonicale said:
what about if your mind has a complete mental block about rejaction?... how do you beat that **** down?.
Keep doing something that is uncomfortable until your comfortable with it.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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