"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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'At least you made a move on her!'

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Ok, so on a third date with a very fit 43 year old and we are all over each other on my couch so I run my hands over her stomach and down....but at this point she proclaims 'Stop it I don't know you!' so I jokingly pull her top down over her jeans. So after more kissing and touching I try again but get the same response. She leaves after some move kissing. I never see her again. Next!

So a week later I see my mate and his wife and the topic of my datin comes up and tell her the story. She say's 'At least you made a move on her, would be weird if you didn't!'

Now chaps, this is comming from a very well rounded woman so take this as a tip and remember 'Rejection is better than regret!'
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Alex DeLarge

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Yup.. It's like striking out in baseball while looking at the ball and not taking a swing.
 

bilboteabaggins

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all about timing and when it feels right to make the moves, at that point resistance will be a non issue ;)
 

Demonicale

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what about if your mind has a complete mental block about rejaction?... how do you beat that **** down?.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Demonicale said:
what about if your mind has a complete mental block about rejaction?... how do you beat that **** down?.
Keep doing something that is uncomfortable until your comfortable with it.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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