"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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'At least you made a move on her!'

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Ok, so on a third date with a very fit 43 year old and we are all over each other on my couch so I run my hands over her stomach and down....but at this point she proclaims 'Stop it I don't know you!' so I jokingly pull her top down over her jeans. So after more kissing and touching I try again but get the same response. She leaves after some move kissing. I never see her again. Next!

So a week later I see my mate and his wife and the topic of my datin comes up and tell her the story. She say's 'At least you made a move on her, would be weird if you didn't!'

Now chaps, this is comming from a very well rounded woman so take this as a tip and remember 'Rejection is better than regret!'
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Alex DeLarge

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Yup.. It's like striking out in baseball while looking at the ball and not taking a swing.
 

bilboteabaggins

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all about timing and when it feels right to make the moves, at that point resistance will be a non issue ;)
 

Demonicale

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what about if your mind has a complete mental block about rejaction?... how do you beat that **** down?.
 

PrettyBoyAJ

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Demonicale said:
what about if your mind has a complete mental block about rejaction?... how do you beat that **** down?.
Keep doing something that is uncomfortable until your comfortable with it.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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