"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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'At least you made a move on her!'

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Ok, so on a third date with a very fit 43 year old and we are all over each other on my couch so I run my hands over her stomach and down....but at this point she proclaims 'Stop it I don't know you!' so I jokingly pull her top down over her jeans. So after more kissing and touching I try again but get the same response. She leaves after some move kissing. I never see her again. Next!

So a week later I see my mate and his wife and the topic of my datin comes up and tell her the story. She say's 'At least you made a move on her, would be weird if you didn't!'

Now chaps, this is comming from a very well rounded woman so take this as a tip and remember 'Rejection is better than regret!'
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Alex DeLarge

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Yup.. It's like striking out in baseball while looking at the ball and not taking a swing.
 

bilboteabaggins

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all about timing and when it feels right to make the moves, at that point resistance will be a non issue ;)
 

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what about if your mind has a complete mental block about rejaction?... how do you beat that **** down?.
 

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Demonicale said:
what about if your mind has a complete mental block about rejaction?... how do you beat that **** down?.
Keep doing something that is uncomfortable until your comfortable with it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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