"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Asking veterans/moderators to challenge us: Intermediate AA Competition

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As you may know, GTP, Deicide, AJRockets, and I finished in the top four spots in an approach anxiety competition last year: Thread

We started a new thread to help out the guys that are new to the game. Now, we are looking for a few of the more experienced members to give us challenges so that we can take it to the next level in beating our AA and to see the wins the competition. Who is in to give us a hand?
 
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Whoops, correction; it is PrettyboyAJ. Nobody seems to be willing to help. We will give it a few more days and if not we will give ourselves challenges.
 

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What do you have in mind?

What kind of challenges we talking here?
 

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Approaches that will take us to the edge so that we lose our anxiety.

It could be pretty much anything. This is for fun and o see who has the biggest guts.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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dude this is the competition i want to be apart of. I read what you posted for that other one and it's basic beginner stuff. I've been approaching girls/women since high school. Can I get in on this one?
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
dude this is the competition i want to be apart of. I read what you posted for that other one and it's basic beginner stuff. I've been approaching girls/women since high school. Can I get in on this one?
Look at the special assignment I gave you in the other thread.
 

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So, what is the goal for this week's competition? It's almost Friday, which is high time for finding attractive women just about anywhere.
 

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No one responded to our thread, so I'll get in touch with GTP to make our own challenges and then release them to you guys. I've got a crazy field report to share; my friend and I hit some Hollywood clubs and had an incredible night. I will update tomorrow.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Alright, this should be fun. I stay in Houston during breaks and go to college in a college town a few miles outside Dallas. So plenty of opportunity to do stuff.
 
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