"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Asking veterans/moderators to challenge us: Intermediate AA Competition

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As you may know, GTP, Deicide, AJRockets, and I finished in the top four spots in an approach anxiety competition last year: Thread

We started a new thread to help out the guys that are new to the game. Now, we are looking for a few of the more experienced members to give us challenges so that we can take it to the next level in beating our AA and to see the wins the competition. Who is in to give us a hand?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whoops, correction; it is PrettyboyAJ. Nobody seems to be willing to help. We will give it a few more days and if not we will give ourselves challenges.
 

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What do you have in mind?

What kind of challenges we talking here?
 

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Approaches that will take us to the edge so that we lose our anxiety.

It could be pretty much anything. This is for fun and o see who has the biggest guts.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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dude this is the competition i want to be apart of. I read what you posted for that other one and it's basic beginner stuff. I've been approaching girls/women since high school. Can I get in on this one?
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
dude this is the competition i want to be apart of. I read what you posted for that other one and it's basic beginner stuff. I've been approaching girls/women since high school. Can I get in on this one?
Look at the special assignment I gave you in the other thread.
 

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So, what is the goal for this week's competition? It's almost Friday, which is high time for finding attractive women just about anywhere.
 

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No one responded to our thread, so I'll get in touch with GTP to make our own challenges and then release them to you guys. I've got a crazy field report to share; my friend and I hit some Hollywood clubs and had an incredible night. I will update tomorrow.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Alright, this should be fun. I stay in Houston during breaks and go to college in a college town a few miles outside Dallas. So plenty of opportunity to do stuff.
 
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