Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Asking veterans/moderators to challenge us: Intermediate AA Competition

Masculinity

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As you may know, GTP, Deicide, AJRockets, and I finished in the top four spots in an approach anxiety competition last year: Thread

We started a new thread to help out the guys that are new to the game. Now, we are looking for a few of the more experienced members to give us challenges so that we can take it to the next level in beating our AA and to see the wins the competition. Who is in to give us a hand?
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whoops, correction; it is PrettyboyAJ. Nobody seems to be willing to help. We will give it a few more days and if not we will give ourselves challenges.
 

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What do you have in mind?

What kind of challenges we talking here?
 

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Approaches that will take us to the edge so that we lose our anxiety.

It could be pretty much anything. This is for fun and o see who has the biggest guts.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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dude this is the competition i want to be apart of. I read what you posted for that other one and it's basic beginner stuff. I've been approaching girls/women since high school. Can I get in on this one?
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
dude this is the competition i want to be apart of. I read what you posted for that other one and it's basic beginner stuff. I've been approaching girls/women since high school. Can I get in on this one?
Look at the special assignment I gave you in the other thread.
 

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So, what is the goal for this week's competition? It's almost Friday, which is high time for finding attractive women just about anywhere.
 

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No one responded to our thread, so I'll get in touch with GTP to make our own challenges and then release them to you guys. I've got a crazy field report to share; my friend and I hit some Hollywood clubs and had an incredible night. I will update tomorrow.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Alright, this should be fun. I stay in Houston during breaks and go to college in a college town a few miles outside Dallas. So plenty of opportunity to do stuff.
 
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