"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Asking veterans/moderators to challenge us: Intermediate AA Competition

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As you may know, GTP, Deicide, AJRockets, and I finished in the top four spots in an approach anxiety competition last year: Thread

We started a new thread to help out the guys that are new to the game. Now, we are looking for a few of the more experienced members to give us challenges so that we can take it to the next level in beating our AA and to see the wins the competition. Who is in to give us a hand?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whoops, correction; it is PrettyboyAJ. Nobody seems to be willing to help. We will give it a few more days and if not we will give ourselves challenges.
 

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What do you have in mind?

What kind of challenges we talking here?
 

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Approaches that will take us to the edge so that we lose our anxiety.

It could be pretty much anything. This is for fun and o see who has the biggest guts.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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dude this is the competition i want to be apart of. I read what you posted for that other one and it's basic beginner stuff. I've been approaching girls/women since high school. Can I get in on this one?
 

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btownbuck2012 said:
dude this is the competition i want to be apart of. I read what you posted for that other one and it's basic beginner stuff. I've been approaching girls/women since high school. Can I get in on this one?
Look at the special assignment I gave you in the other thread.
 

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So, what is the goal for this week's competition? It's almost Friday, which is high time for finding attractive women just about anywhere.
 

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No one responded to our thread, so I'll get in touch with GTP to make our own challenges and then release them to you guys. I've got a crazy field report to share; my friend and I hit some Hollywood clubs and had an incredible night. I will update tomorrow.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alright, this should be fun. I stay in Houston during breaks and go to college in a college town a few miles outside Dallas. So plenty of opportunity to do stuff.
 
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