"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Asking veterans/moderators to challenge us: Intermediate AA Competition

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As you may know, GTP, Deicide, AJRockets, and I finished in the top four spots in an approach anxiety competition last year: Thread

We started a new thread to help out the guys that are new to the game. Now, we are looking for a few of the more experienced members to give us challenges so that we can take it to the next level in beating our AA and to see the wins the competition. Who is in to give us a hand?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Whoops, correction; it is PrettyboyAJ. Nobody seems to be willing to help. We will give it a few more days and if not we will give ourselves challenges.
 
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What do you have in mind?

What kind of challenges we talking here?
 
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Approaches that will take us to the edge so that we lose our anxiety.

It could be pretty much anything. This is for fun and o see who has the biggest guts.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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dude this is the competition i want to be apart of. I read what you posted for that other one and it's basic beginner stuff. I've been approaching girls/women since high school. Can I get in on this one?
 
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btownbuck2012 said:
dude this is the competition i want to be apart of. I read what you posted for that other one and it's basic beginner stuff. I've been approaching girls/women since high school. Can I get in on this one?
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Look at the special assignment I gave you in the other thread.
 
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So, what is the goal for this week's competition? It's almost Friday, which is high time for finding attractive women just about anywhere.
 
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No one responded to our thread, so I'll get in touch with GTP to make our own challenges and then release them to you guys. I've got a crazy field report to share; my friend and I hit some Hollywood clubs and had an incredible night. I will update tomorrow.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Alright, this should be fun. I stay in Houston during breaks and go to college in a college town a few miles outside Dallas. So plenty of opportunity to do stuff.
 
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