Dude's probably already done a f2f & is currently hitting it!!Jayer said:true Rollo.
I sent Gangster the link wonder what he thinks of her. You out there dude?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dude's probably already done a f2f & is currently hitting it!!Jayer said:true Rollo.
I sent Gangster the link wonder what he thinks of her. You out there dude?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
He's right, they all say that. And if you REALLY want to see that type of behaviour, go to the Greek website Eligible Greeks, and look at the profiles. They all want tall, dark, handsome.... BS BS BS. But some really do. Not to mention half those women think they are Goddesses or princesses, etc etc.MrLuvr said:They ALL say the same damn thing, it means absolutely NOTHING. Just a bunch of words to get rid of you.
Sounds great as long as she's notJayer said:tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.
What do you all think?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Jayer said:no she's pretty hot and pretty intelligent and educated.... She actually is entitlted to what she is asking for.
Still I've seen girls like this end up with truck drivers....
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Ignore what people say, watch what they DO.Jayer said:I could care less about the chick. I'm just trying to establish whether girls truly mean what they say they want in a guy or if its just utter bs.....
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.