"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Asked 29 year old hottie what she looks for in a man

Reyaj

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I met this girl through work about a year ago. We interacted due to work briefly but she doesn't remember who I am. I found her on myspace and started hitting on her. She obviously ignored me and as per her page I could see several guys are supplicating to her (she is hot I don't blame them) This girl is like an 8.5 +, very smart and very career oriented.

So anyway I came clean and asked her point blank what she looked for in a guy and here is exactly what she said:

tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.


What do you all think?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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blackbelt2k

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only concentrate on the first ones...be taller than her, have a tan, don't be too ugly...meaning she's self obsorbed and thinks her poopoo smells like roses...my advice, give this girl a reality check...that'll get her interest.... you should reply "wow, talk about the cliche beauty is only skin deep"
 

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Turn it around and have her qualify herself:

"Ok, those are good qualities to want, yet what do you have to offer a man, not counting your looks, that would merit you deserving the ideal man you're looking for?"
 

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29 years old?? Her only requirement should be that the guy has a heartbeat. 29 year old American broads who are single have HPV. Simple as that. The odds say so. I wouldn't touch such a beast with two pairs of surgical gloves on.

BTW, the next 29 year old "hottie" I see will be the first 29 year old "hottie" I have seen.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Gangster Of Love

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sparky0000 said:
29 years old?? Her only requirement should be that the guy has a heartbeat. 29 year old American broads who are single have HPV. Simple as that. The odds say so. I wouldn't touch such a beast with two pairs of surgical gloves on.

BTW, the next 29 year old "hottie" I see will be the first 29 year old "hottie" I have seen.
I know you only sleep with 20-25 year old hotties, and are angry, or is it just shtick, just for laughs, that somebody finds a late 20's girl hot. Move to a major city and you'll see tons of hotties of all ages.

So just for the ignorant or less informed people on the issue, here's the disclaimer:

ALL sexually active people who have had a couple of sex partners HAVE or have had HPV. Very few of us get the symptoms, which is warts. So most people don't even know they are, were, or will be carriers at one point during their sexually active life. DON'T BE IGNORANT.:nono: Even if you are under 29.
 

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Gangster Of Love said:
I know you only sleep with 20-25 year old hotties, and are angry, or is it just shtick, just for laughs, that somebody finds a late 20's girl hot. Move to a major city and you'll see tons of hotties of all ages.

So just for the ignorant or less informed people on the issue, here's the disclaimer:

ALL sexually active people who have had a couple of sex partners HAVE or have had HPV. Very few of us get the symptoms, which is warts. So most people don't even know they are, were, or will be carriers at one point during their sexually active life. DON'T BE IGNORANT.:nono: Even if you are under 29.
WHAT IS HPV?
 

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I have a feeling Sparky is an over 40+ guy or an agency owner in the Ukraine trying to rake in some suckers.. Why else would he say a 19 year old should be dating 40 year old men or older. So should guys 30 and under be dating kids? You're sick Sparky!!! I think he stays home a lot and beats off a lot to underage porn.So a woman 29 does'nt turn him on. this guy is here everyday talking about Ukranian women. For a guy who claims to be getting so much play,he certainly has a lot of time on his hands.!!!!
 

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Jayer said:
So anyway I came clean and asked her point blank what she looked for in a guy and here is exactly what she said:

tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.
As a man you also have a laundry list right?: she should be petite, dark, pretty, funny, big t1ts, nice firm ass, likes to swallow, likes it up the ass, doesn't get head aches or cry for no reason, is low maintenance and doesn't sleep around.

In the end of the day half or most of her laundry list flies out the window and all she needs is a good c0ck.
 

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Jayer said:
...tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.


What do you all think?
All cliche. Next time you talk to her, ask for examples. You'll be able to tell if she's just giving you the basic "tall, dark and handsome" BS or if there are some specific qualities (actions) that she likes in a guy.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mahon83050 said:
WHAT IS HPV?
Don't worry about. If you get warts, then come back for an explanation.
 

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ricorico said:
I have a feeling Sparky is an over 40+ guy or an agency owner in the Ukraine trying to rake in some suckers.. Why else would he say a 19 year old should be dating 40 year old men or older.
Should be dating? No, not necessarily.

Could be dating? Why not.

Even in a backward country like the US, 19 yr olds are above the age of consent.

Or are you part of the moral police?
 

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You asked a question, and got an answer. All (except "tall" and "dark," which are pretty cliche', and probably the least important of the lot) desirable traits or activity preferences. But what kind of guys does she actually go with?

Who cares?

The only thing that really matters in her whole "laundry list" (for LTR purposes, at least) is "likes to travel" (translation: must have $$$).

I "prefer" tall gals, but most of the ones I've actually gone out with have not been very tall. Attraction can't very well be objectified.
 

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Jayer said:
I met this girl through work about a year ago. We interacted due to work briefly but she doesn't remember who I am. I found her on myspace and started hitting on her. She obviously ignored me and as per her page I could see several guys are supplicating to her (she is hot I don't blame them) This girl is like an 8.5 +, very smart and very career oriented.

So anyway I came clean and asked her point blank what she looked for in a guy and here is exactly what she said:

tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.


What do you all think?
ha....gimme the adress man I think I'm her perfect guy!!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MrLuvr

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Jayer said:
tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.
They ALL say the same damn thing, it means absolutely NOTHING. Just a bunch of words to get rid of you.
 
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Serialized3 said:
I think she left out "big c0ck".
Hot babes don't care too much about penis size, gay guys do, so unless you are gay yourself I wouldn't worry about it. :crackup:
 

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HaremMasterThomas said:
Hot babes don't care too much about penis size, gay guys do, so unless you are gay yourself I wouldn't worry about it. :crackup:
I have to disagree with you respectfully. Women love hung dudes.
If a women tells you she doesn't....she's a LIAR.
 

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rakishness said:
I have to disagree with you respectfully. Women love hung dudes.
If a women tells you she doesn't....she's a LIAR.
not neccessarily. I used to think (in my KJ days) that there was just one type of guy women like: the "ultimate alpha" guy.

In reality its not like that at all, some like emos, some like geeks, some like average hung guys etc. Thats real life though...sosuave reality is very different
 

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Jayer said:
I met this girl through work about a year ago. We interacted due to work briefly but she doesn't remember who I am. I found her on myspace and started hitting on her. She obviously ignored me and as per her page I could see several guys are supplicating to her (she is hot I don't blame them) This girl is like an 8.5 +, very smart and very career oriented.

So anyway I came clean and asked her point blank what she looked for in a guy and here is exactly what she said:

tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.


What do you all think?
What a women says she wants and what a women wants are completely different things.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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