I've been thinking about that, Jayer.
And I think you're right.
Why?
Because 1) If she's really into you, she will let you know certain things, not all the time, but often women will demonstrate appreciation for what you do for her, and who you are.
2) If you ask her and she tells you, and you try to MOLD yourSELF into that person, what the fvck are you doing, bro?
And 3) many times, women aren't attracted to what they say they like,and often, the more adventurous chicks will probably give you a try anyway!
Inner game, HV, confidence, have a social life, be physically healthy, emotionally mature and healthy, be positive, and be outgoing.
Oh and yes, have ambition, dreams, and goals.
And yes, the women are Secondary to that.