"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jayer said:
true Rollo.

I sent Gangster the link wonder what he thinks of her. You out there dude?
Dude's probably already done a f2f & is currently hitting it!!:D
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey what's up guys?

Haha, yes I got the link. I saw it, then forgot all about it. Did I respond to your PM Jayer? She's pretty hot. What happened with her and you?

The thing with some of these "hottie" online is that they are much easier to penetrate, no pun intended, when approaching them in person for the first time, than to try to peak their interest when they are getting hundreds of emails and attention from guys online.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey Gangster thanks for replying. I was wondering if you ever got the pm. I didn't receieve a response no.

I actually met a while ago at a work function, it was like a conference. It was like a 2 minute convo and she wouldn't remember me.

I actually responded something interesting to her last comment a month later and I think I may be getting her intrigued.

Still she lives all the way in So Cal so its not like I want anything with her anyway. I just figured I'd use this thread to show how girls think.


Do you think she really would date a guy with that description?

I found that girls say one thing and do another. Its all about how a guy can make them feel regardless of where he works, what he drives, and how big his schlong is...

Do you all agree?
 

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MrLuvr said:
They ALL say the same damn thing, it means absolutely NOTHING. Just a bunch of words to get rid of you.
He's right, they all say that. And if you REALLY want to see that type of behaviour, go to the Greek website Eligible Greeks, and look at the profiles. They all want tall, dark, handsome.... BS BS BS. But some really do. Not to mention half those women think they are Goddesses or princesses, etc etc.

Seriously, see how you can find a profile with Grkgoddess or hottie or honey or princess in it or similar HUNDREDS!!!!! These women are full of themselves. Think its a Greek thing. Or at least that stupid.

But yeah, i'd reverse it like Gangster said... What do YOU have to offer? Throws them off. They dont think that the ball goes the other way too. Oh crap, I said WHAT I want, and now I have to say what I can offer? :nervous:

Put her on the spot.
 

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Jayer said:
tall, dark, handsome, creative, funny, ambitious, honest, likes to travel, sexy, romantic, intellectual, spontaneous, fresh.


What do you all think?
Sounds great as long as she's not

short, white, ugly, boring, serious, lazy, deceiving, homebody, square, stupid, rigid and smelly.:eek:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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no she's pretty hot and pretty intelligent and educated.... She actually is entitlted to what she is asking for.

Still I've seen girls like this end up with truck drivers....
 

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no she's pretty hot and pretty intelligent and educated.... She actually is entitlted to what she is asking for.

Still I've seen girls like this end up with truck drivers....

Yes, it might not be what her preference is, but that type of girly girl will tend to be attracted to masuline men, and truck drivers are sterotypically manly men.
 

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I've been thinking about that, Jayer.
And I think you're right.

Why?

Because 1) If she's really into you, she will let you know certain things, not all the time, but often women will demonstrate appreciation for what you do for her, and who you are.
2) If you ask her and she tells you, and you try to MOLD yourSELF into that person, what the fvck are you doing, bro?
And 3) many times, women aren't attracted to what they say they like,and often, the more adventurous chicks will probably give you a try anyway!


Inner game, HV, confidence, have a social life, be physically healthy, emotionally mature and healthy, be positive, and be outgoing.
Oh and yes, have ambition, dreams, and goals.
And yes, the women are Secondary to that.
 

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Inner game, HV, confidence, have a social life, be physically healthy, emotionally mature and healthy, be positive, and be outgoing.
Oh and yes, have ambition, dreams, and goals.
And yes, the women are Secondary to that.


Great words that are so true.

What's HV though?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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HV = Higher Value.
 

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jayer

you WREAK of pure AFC, why are you whooped about this chick?

are you in an all male community where you live and have no hope?

sure i have my set backs but i still get laid regularly by different girls
 

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Jayer said:
I could care less about the chick. I'm just trying to establish whether girls truly mean what they say they want in a guy or if its just utter bs.....
Ignore what people say, watch what they DO.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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