"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

Read more...

Ask every girls you know to do what we do...

LogMeIn

Banned
Joined
Oct 9, 2015
Messages
53
Reaction score
11
Age
37
"I don't mind you not saying anything because you don't want to lead me on. Maybe I'm too kind for thinking that you are a decent human being. But I'm starting to think that I might be wrong. You just don't want me to think about you in any ways whatsoever. I don't want to hurt your feelings to I'll leave it at that. The truth is you can be confident with yourself all you want. It's easy. Why don't you prove it? just like what you're expecting from me."
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

mr. kennedy

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Oct 3, 2012
Messages
215
Reaction score
21
At first, I thought the title said why does every woman ask what we do?

Every single encounter I've had with women during the last 10 years, they would ask me what I did for a living within the first 2 minutes.
 

Juan Rabo

Don Juan
Joined
Jan 5, 2016
Messages
16
Reaction score
3
Age
38
At first, I thought the title said why does every woman ask what we do?

Every single encounter I've had with women during the last 10 years, they would ask me what I did for a living within the first 2 minutes.
not necessarily true. i've been currently banging this girl for a few weeks and we still don't know what each other does.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Alvafe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 26, 2012
Messages
3,361
Reaction score
1,594
Age
43
I started getting that question in my mid 20s. Before that, no one cared.
feh before that no one really cares what class you are taking :)

but serious you shoudl just put her on the spot and tell her, "So many things to ask and you start making this boring question? let's try this what you like to do in your free time?"or a better questin you wanted to know or was curious about, I had a woman once ask me what car I had, I was less polite and didn't care to ask her anything after that, good thing its was a party and not a date, she was pretty, but a serious gold digger.... and that is from this kind of questions, are to gauge how much money you have and if you are worth of her time, so you spin it around and make her work to impress you since she failed on her first question, showing you was disapointed with such a question also helps or be more playfull and make it like a silly question and move on, depends on how your personality work with
 
Top