"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"I don't mind you not saying anything because you don't want to lead me on. Maybe I'm too kind for thinking that you are a decent human being. But I'm starting to think that I might be wrong. You just don't want me to think about you in any ways whatsoever. I don't want to hurt your feelings to I'll leave it at that. The truth is you can be confident with yourself all you want. It's easy. Why don't you prove it? just like what you're expecting from me."
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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At first, I thought the title said why does every woman ask what we do?

Every single encounter I've had with women during the last 10 years, they would ask me what I did for a living within the first 2 minutes.
 

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At first, I thought the title said why does every woman ask what we do?

Every single encounter I've had with women during the last 10 years, they would ask me what I did for a living within the first 2 minutes.
not necessarily true. i've been currently banging this girl for a few weeks and we still don't know what each other does.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I started getting that question in my mid 20s. Before that, no one cared.
feh before that no one really cares what class you are taking :)

but serious you shoudl just put her on the spot and tell her, "So many things to ask and you start making this boring question? let's try this what you like to do in your free time?"or a better questin you wanted to know or was curious about, I had a woman once ask me what car I had, I was less polite and didn't care to ask her anything after that, good thing its was a party and not a date, she was pretty, but a serious gold digger.... and that is from this kind of questions, are to gauge how much money you have and if you are worth of her time, so you spin it around and make her work to impress you since she failed on her first question, showing you was disapointed with such a question also helps or be more playfull and make it like a silly question and move on, depends on how your personality work with
 
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