"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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"I don't mind you not saying anything because you don't want to lead me on. Maybe I'm too kind for thinking that you are a decent human being. But I'm starting to think that I might be wrong. You just don't want me to think about you in any ways whatsoever. I don't want to hurt your feelings to I'll leave it at that. The truth is you can be confident with yourself all you want. It's easy. Why don't you prove it? just like what you're expecting from me."
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mr. kennedy

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At first, I thought the title said why does every woman ask what we do?

Every single encounter I've had with women during the last 10 years, they would ask me what I did for a living within the first 2 minutes.
 

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At first, I thought the title said why does every woman ask what we do?

Every single encounter I've had with women during the last 10 years, they would ask me what I did for a living within the first 2 minutes.
not necessarily true. i've been currently banging this girl for a few weeks and we still don't know what each other does.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I started getting that question in my mid 20s. Before that, no one cared.
feh before that no one really cares what class you are taking :)

but serious you shoudl just put her on the spot and tell her, "So many things to ask and you start making this boring question? let's try this what you like to do in your free time?"or a better questin you wanted to know or was curious about, I had a woman once ask me what car I had, I was less polite and didn't care to ask her anything after that, good thing its was a party and not a date, she was pretty, but a serious gold digger.... and that is from this kind of questions, are to gauge how much money you have and if you are worth of her time, so you spin it around and make her work to impress you since she failed on her first question, showing you was disapointed with such a question also helps or be more playfull and make it like a silly question and move on, depends on how your personality work with
 
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