"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"I don't mind you not saying anything because you don't want to lead me on. Maybe I'm too kind for thinking that you are a decent human being. But I'm starting to think that I might be wrong. You just don't want me to think about you in any ways whatsoever. I don't want to hurt your feelings to I'll leave it at that. The truth is you can be confident with yourself all you want. It's easy. Why don't you prove it? just like what you're expecting from me."
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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At first, I thought the title said why does every woman ask what we do?

Every single encounter I've had with women during the last 10 years, they would ask me what I did for a living within the first 2 minutes.
 
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mr. kennedy said:
At first, I thought the title said why does every woman ask what we do?

Every single encounter I've had with women during the last 10 years, they would ask me what I did for a living within the first 2 minutes.
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not necessarily true. i've been currently banging this girl for a few weeks and we still don't know what each other does.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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mr. kennedy said:
I started getting that question in my mid 20s. Before that, no one cared.
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feh before that no one really cares what class you are taking :)

but serious you shoudl just put her on the spot and tell her, "So many things to ask and you start making this boring question? let's try this what you like to do in your free time?"or a better questin you wanted to know or was curious about, I had a woman once ask me what car I had, I was less polite and didn't care to ask her anything after that, good thing its was a party and not a date, she was pretty, but a serious gold digger.... and that is from this kind of questions, are to gauge how much money you have and if you are worth of her time, so you spin it around and make her work to impress you since she failed on her first question, showing you was disapointed with such a question also helps or be more playfull and make it like a silly question and move on, depends on how your personality work with
 
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