MatureDJ
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
article: The Dos and Don’ts of Dating Older Women
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dustmuffin
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That article is a bunch of crap.
My rule: Never date women that comes with baggage.
Eg. Single mothers with kids, women that are past 35 and still not married, divorcees, women that have gone through multiple relationships, women with disorders and mentally and emotionally unstable, women that change jobs frequently, da da da.
Eg. Single mothers with kids, women that are past 35 and still not married, divorcees, women that have gone through multiple relationships, women with disorders and mentally and emotionally unstable, women that change jobs frequently, da da da.
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Well, that rules out a great amount of them. This advice isn't intended for creating relationships though, all your factors doesn't really matter that much just to have a few plates to fvck. Which is really the point here. The age difference aspect doesn't even apply that much to this advice, it's relevant regardless of their age.
The women you talk about are the type that either have no sex or they only do it when they are very sure it's going to be a relationship. There's no trying out or having sex for the fun of it, because that would eventually make them the type of woman you don't want.
So this applies for casual sex, not LTR. Your demands are fine for a LTR though.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.