MatureDJ
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
article: The Dos and Don’ts of Dating Older Women
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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That article is a bunch of crap.
My rule: Never date women that comes with baggage.
Eg. Single mothers with kids, women that are past 35 and still not married, divorcees, women that have gone through multiple relationships, women with disorders and mentally and emotionally unstable, women that change jobs frequently, da da da.
Eg. Single mothers with kids, women that are past 35 and still not married, divorcees, women that have gone through multiple relationships, women with disorders and mentally and emotionally unstable, women that change jobs frequently, da da da.
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Well, that rules out a great amount of them. This advice isn't intended for creating relationships though, all your factors doesn't really matter that much just to have a few plates to fvck. Which is really the point here. The age difference aspect doesn't even apply that much to this advice, it's relevant regardless of their age.
The women you talk about are the type that either have no sex or they only do it when they are very sure it's going to be a relationship. There's no trying out or having sex for the fun of it, because that would eventually make them the type of woman you don't want.
So this applies for casual sex, not LTR. Your demands are fine for a LTR though.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.