MatureDJ
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
article: The Dos and Don’ts of Dating Older Women
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
dustmuffin
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That article is a bunch of crap.
My rule: Never date women that comes with baggage.
Eg. Single mothers with kids, women that are past 35 and still not married, divorcees, women that have gone through multiple relationships, women with disorders and mentally and emotionally unstable, women that change jobs frequently, da da da.
Eg. Single mothers with kids, women that are past 35 and still not married, divorcees, women that have gone through multiple relationships, women with disorders and mentally and emotionally unstable, women that change jobs frequently, da da da.
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Well, that rules out a great amount of them. This advice isn't intended for creating relationships though, all your factors doesn't really matter that much just to have a few plates to fvck. Which is really the point here. The age difference aspect doesn't even apply that much to this advice, it's relevant regardless of their age.
The women you talk about are the type that either have no sex or they only do it when they are very sure it's going to be a relationship. There's no trying out or having sex for the fun of it, because that would eventually make them the type of woman you don't want.
So this applies for casual sex, not LTR. Your demands are fine for a LTR though.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.