MatureDJ
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
article: The Dos and Don’ts of Dating Older Women
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
dustmuffin
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That article is a bunch of crap.
My rule: Never date women that comes with baggage.
Eg. Single mothers with kids, women that are past 35 and still not married, divorcees, women that have gone through multiple relationships, women with disorders and mentally and emotionally unstable, women that change jobs frequently, da da da.
Eg. Single mothers with kids, women that are past 35 and still not married, divorcees, women that have gone through multiple relationships, women with disorders and mentally and emotionally unstable, women that change jobs frequently, da da da.
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Well, that rules out a great amount of them. This advice isn't intended for creating relationships though, all your factors doesn't really matter that much just to have a few plates to fvck. Which is really the point here. The age difference aspect doesn't even apply that much to this advice, it's relevant regardless of their age.
The women you talk about are the type that either have no sex or they only do it when they are very sure it's going to be a relationship. There's no trying out or having sex for the fun of it, because that would eventually make them the type of woman you don't want.
So this applies for casual sex, not LTR. Your demands are fine for a LTR though.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.