MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
lmao of course a fat b*tch wrote this.As a confident fat woman myself, I can testify that my husband is happy. Would he be happier with a skinny woman? Who knows!
They will tend to treat you better...There was an old song years ago (even before MY time, lol) and the refrain went like this:
"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life...
Never make a pretty woman your wife...
According to my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
That's the whole message of the song.They will tend to treat you better...
You'd think so, but there are tons of chubs with that "more to love" attitude that is totally unjustified but nonetheless a thing. I guess guys who love fat porn get to feel like they married a porn starThey will tend to treat you better...
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
The Article should read: News flash men who don't get married to any woman are up to 95% happier
But if you have to marry one and you locked in an iron clad prenatal and you could not find a hb9 with the husband pleasing personality of a hb4 then I guess a chubby one will do.[/QUOTE
Unhappy and frustratedI would say men who marry women 1-2 levels below their SMV are happier.
For an average guy it takes a below average fattie, for a top player a cute 7 will be the same in terms of behaviour.
The more you are above her in smv value, the less crap and frustration she is gonna provide.
Good luck getting married to your equal or above with the current estern mainstream culture and law.
Women enjoy distorting the line drawn between a "chubby" girl, and a girl who is obese. They try to paint the picture that the obese girl is just "chubby".
Here's the line I draw...
I can fvck this:
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I cannot fvck this:
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
They may have character, but they're still not immune to doing stupid **** and being irrational. I still want a hottie or blend of all three traits** a general rule of thumb
Trying to get laid seek out beauty.
Trying to find a meaningful relationship seek out character.
Sometimes that means less attractive or chubby.
Truth.... ^^** a general rule of thumb
Trying to get laid seek out beauty.
Trying to find a meaningful relationship seek out character.
Sometimes that means less attractive or chubby.