"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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article: Men Who Marry Chubby Women Are 10 Times Happier

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There was an old song years ago (even before MY time, lol) and the refrain went like this:

"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life...
Never make a pretty woman your wife...
According to my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you"
 

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There was an old song years ago (even before MY time, lol) and the refrain went like this:

"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life...
Never make a pretty woman your wife...
According to my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you"
They will tend to treat you better...
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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The Article should read: News flash men who don't get married to any woman are up to 95% happier

But if you have to marry one and you locked in an iron clad prenuptial and you could not find a hb9 with the husband pleasing personality of a hb4 then I guess a chubby one will do.
 
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They will tend to treat you better...
You'd think so, but there are tons of chubs with that "more to love" attitude that is totally unjustified but nonetheless a thing. I guess guys who love fat porn get to feel like they married a porn star :D
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I would say men who marry women 1-2 levels below their SMV are happier.

For an average guy it takes a below average fattie, for a top player a cute 7 will be the same in terms of behaviour.

The more you are above her in smv value, the less crap and frustration she is gonna provide.

Good luck getting married to your equal or above with the current estern mainstream culture and law.
 

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The Article should read: News flash men who don't get married to any woman are up to 95% happier

But if you have to marry one and you locked in an iron clad prenatal and you could not find a hb9 with the husband pleasing personality of a hb4 then I guess a chubby one will do.[/QUOTE
I would say men who marry women 1-2 levels below their SMV are happier.

For an average guy it takes a below average fattie, for a top player a cute 7 will be the same in terms of behaviour.

The more you are above her in smv value, the less crap and frustration she is gonna provide.

Good luck getting married to your equal or above with the current estern mainstream culture and law.
Unhappy and frustrated
 

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Women enjoy distorting the line drawn between a "chubby" girl, and a girl who is obese. They try to paint the picture that the obese girl is just "chubby".

Here's the line I draw...

I can fvck this:



I cannot fvck this:


Once girl A) pops out a few kids she will start to look more like girl B).

Girl A) has 4 years max of "good enough to F." That's with or without kids.
 

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I find the first girl in Des's post cute, but her body isn't good enough for me. I couldn't date that and for sure wouldn't marry her. That's what I call an HB6.5.

Sometimes I wish I didn't like nice bodies as much as I do. I've tried to be attracted to girls like the first one, but just can't do it. The only way I would do a chic like the first one was if I was in a dry spell, and I didn't have to exert any effort. She would could one time and I'd never call her again.

The second chic is disgusting. I'd rather be gay.

There's no reason women should be as fat as either of these. they are both out of shape.

I guess I'll just live out my life rolling thru girls with nice bodies that over value themselves.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm happier alone.

Sorry fatties.:p
 

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** a general rule of thumb

Trying to get laid seek out beauty.

Trying to find a meaningful relationship seek out character.
Sometimes that means less attractive or chubby.
They may have character, but they're still not immune to doing stupid **** and being irrational. I still want a hottie or blend of all three traits
 
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Would you believe that in reality, the SMV of every female is...

Trading their vagina for meat.

Don't let modern society fool you.

That's what cave women did, and it's still in all of their DNA.

Now we have Pokemon playing Princesses who think their feces is worth gold.
 

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** a general rule of thumb

Trying to get laid seek out beauty.

Trying to find a meaningful relationship seek out character.
Sometimes that means less attractive or chubby.
Truth.... ^^

I'd rather be with a good loving girl with a few extra lbs. than a bad unloving beautiful one.... or in my case I wish I was.
 
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