"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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article: Men Who Marry Chubby Women Are 10 Times Happier

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There was an old song years ago (even before MY time, lol) and the refrain went like this:

"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life...
Never make a pretty woman your wife...
According to my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you"
 

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There was an old song years ago (even before MY time, lol) and the refrain went like this:

"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life...
Never make a pretty woman your wife...
According to my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you"
They will tend to treat you better...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Article should read: News flash men who don't get married to any woman are up to 95% happier

But if you have to marry one and you locked in an iron clad prenuptial and you could not find a hb9 with the husband pleasing personality of a hb4 then I guess a chubby one will do.
 
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They will tend to treat you better...
You'd think so, but there are tons of chubs with that "more to love" attitude that is totally unjustified but nonetheless a thing. I guess guys who love fat porn get to feel like they married a porn star :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I would say men who marry women 1-2 levels below their SMV are happier.

For an average guy it takes a below average fattie, for a top player a cute 7 will be the same in terms of behaviour.

The more you are above her in smv value, the less crap and frustration she is gonna provide.

Good luck getting married to your equal or above with the current estern mainstream culture and law.
 

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The Article should read: News flash men who don't get married to any woman are up to 95% happier

But if you have to marry one and you locked in an iron clad prenatal and you could not find a hb9 with the husband pleasing personality of a hb4 then I guess a chubby one will do.[/QUOTE
I would say men who marry women 1-2 levels below their SMV are happier.

For an average guy it takes a below average fattie, for a top player a cute 7 will be the same in terms of behaviour.

The more you are above her in smv value, the less crap and frustration she is gonna provide.

Good luck getting married to your equal or above with the current estern mainstream culture and law.
Unhappy and frustrated
 

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Women enjoy distorting the line drawn between a "chubby" girl, and a girl who is obese. They try to paint the picture that the obese girl is just "chubby".

Here's the line I draw...

I can fvck this:



I cannot fvck this:


Once girl A) pops out a few kids she will start to look more like girl B).

Girl A) has 4 years max of "good enough to F." That's with or without kids.
 

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I find the first girl in Des's post cute, but her body isn't good enough for me. I couldn't date that and for sure wouldn't marry her. That's what I call an HB6.5.

Sometimes I wish I didn't like nice bodies as much as I do. I've tried to be attracted to girls like the first one, but just can't do it. The only way I would do a chic like the first one was if I was in a dry spell, and I didn't have to exert any effort. She would could one time and I'd never call her again.

The second chic is disgusting. I'd rather be gay.

There's no reason women should be as fat as either of these. they are both out of shape.

I guess I'll just live out my life rolling thru girls with nice bodies that over value themselves.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I'm happier alone.

Sorry fatties.:p
 

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** a general rule of thumb

Trying to get laid seek out beauty.

Trying to find a meaningful relationship seek out character.
Sometimes that means less attractive or chubby.
They may have character, but they're still not immune to doing stupid **** and being irrational. I still want a hottie or blend of all three traits
 
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Would you believe that in reality, the SMV of every female is...

Trading their vagina for meat.

Don't let modern society fool you.

That's what cave women did, and it's still in all of their DNA.

Now we have Pokemon playing Princesses who think their feces is worth gold.
 

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** a general rule of thumb

Trying to get laid seek out beauty.

Trying to find a meaningful relationship seek out character.
Sometimes that means less attractive or chubby.
Truth.... ^^

I'd rather be with a good loving girl with a few extra lbs. than a bad unloving beautiful one.... or in my case I wish I was.
 
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