MatureDJ
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
lmao of course a fat b*tch wrote this.As a confident fat woman myself, I can testify that my husband is happy. Would he be happier with a skinny woman? Who knows!
They will tend to treat you better...There was an old song years ago (even before MY time, lol) and the refrain went like this:
"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life...
Never make a pretty woman your wife...
According to my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That's the whole message of the song.They will tend to treat you better...
You'd think so, but there are tons of chubs with that "more to love" attitude that is totally unjustified but nonetheless a thing. I guess guys who love fat porn get to feel like they married a porn starThey will tend to treat you better...
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
The Article should read: News flash men who don't get married to any woman are up to 95% happier
But if you have to marry one and you locked in an iron clad prenatal and you could not find a hb9 with the husband pleasing personality of a hb4 then I guess a chubby one will do.[/QUOTE
Unhappy and frustratedI would say men who marry women 1-2 levels below their SMV are happier.
For an average guy it takes a below average fattie, for a top player a cute 7 will be the same in terms of behaviour.
The more you are above her in smv value, the less crap and frustration she is gonna provide.
Good luck getting married to your equal or above with the current estern mainstream culture and law.
Women enjoy distorting the line drawn between a "chubby" girl, and a girl who is obese. They try to paint the picture that the obese girl is just "chubby".
Here's the line I draw...
I can fvck this:
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I cannot fvck this:
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
They may have character, but they're still not immune to doing stupid **** and being irrational. I still want a hottie or blend of all three traits** a general rule of thumb
Trying to get laid seek out beauty.
Trying to find a meaningful relationship seek out character.
Sometimes that means less attractive or chubby.
Truth.... ^^** a general rule of thumb
Trying to get laid seek out beauty.
Trying to find a meaningful relationship seek out character.
Sometimes that means less attractive or chubby.