MatureDJ
Master Don Juan
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
lmao of course a fat b*tch wrote this.As a confident fat woman myself, I can testify that my husband is happy. Would he be happier with a skinny woman? Who knows!
They will tend to treat you better...There was an old song years ago (even before MY time, lol) and the refrain went like this:
"If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life...
Never make a pretty woman your wife...
According to my personal point of view,
Get an ugly girl to marry you"
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
That's the whole message of the song.They will tend to treat you better...
You'd think so, but there are tons of chubs with that "more to love" attitude that is totally unjustified but nonetheless a thing. I guess guys who love fat porn get to feel like they married a porn starThey will tend to treat you better...
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
The Article should read: News flash men who don't get married to any woman are up to 95% happier
But if you have to marry one and you locked in an iron clad prenatal and you could not find a hb9 with the husband pleasing personality of a hb4 then I guess a chubby one will do.[/QUOTE
Unhappy and frustratedI would say men who marry women 1-2 levels below their SMV are happier.
For an average guy it takes a below average fattie, for a top player a cute 7 will be the same in terms of behaviour.
The more you are above her in smv value, the less crap and frustration she is gonna provide.
Good luck getting married to your equal or above with the current estern mainstream culture and law.
Women enjoy distorting the line drawn between a "chubby" girl, and a girl who is obese. They try to paint the picture that the obese girl is just "chubby".
Here's the line I draw...
I can fvck this:
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I cannot fvck this:
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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
They may have character, but they're still not immune to doing stupid **** and being irrational. I still want a hottie or blend of all three traits** a general rule of thumb
Trying to get laid seek out beauty.
Trying to find a meaningful relationship seek out character.
Sometimes that means less attractive or chubby.
Truth.... ^^** a general rule of thumb
Trying to get laid seek out beauty.
Trying to find a meaningful relationship seek out character.
Sometimes that means less attractive or chubby.