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article: Many young men are shunning sex. Is it because feminism and #MeToo are constant reminders of the inferiority of male identity?

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A lot will. Some bad things have happened due to people not getting laid. When men are not getting laid, they are pisssed.



You were fortunate. I'm an early Millennial. The Millennials like myself who turned 18 in the early 2000s never had a good mating environment. The entire Millennial generation had a bad environment that is continually getting worse.



Agree 100%. The Millennials have been quite entitled and a lot of them are pisssed. Conditions are not likely to be better for Gen Z, whose oldest members are now in their early 20s.
Can confirm. In my early 20s, **** sucks here lmao don’t get me wrong, I could bag a few hoes if I really wanted to, but mostlf them are nasty and just ugly. The dudes I know that did constantly pull tail were only pulling the uggos too, so it’s not just me. Young women nowadays aren’t having a whole lot of sex like raging whores (well, most of them aren’t anyway), they’re just having enough to destroy their ability to love and pairbond lol
It's probably better for sexless men to go down the overconsumption of alcohol path than the overconsumption of porn and accompanying fapping path.
Yo wait what? For real?
simply being in the right environment to meet tons of stupid women.
This is the biggest thing right here. It’s your environment that gives you pussy more so than anything else in this world. I’ve realized this a while ago, but it’s true. I know a Pakistani dude who’s short and overweight, about 5’7ish who bags girls but they’re all kinda ugly, except for his now current gf who he had to basically steal from his best friend when they were going thru relationship issues with each other. Dude is a snake lol and and honestly not all that. I think it’s mostly just having the balls to actually go for it too and not care, it just makes you more prone to getting #MeToo’d and your life destroyed though.

All these problems are mostly prevalent in the US btw, I’d like to point out that the UK doesn’t have these issues to nearly the same extent that we do here.
Excess Fapping ends up substituting sex and real companionship and fvcks up your real response around women.
Women don’t offer companionship in 2020. Women also aren’t women in 2020 either lol
Every man on here should be constantly fvcking, even if he has to lower his standards to prevent drought.
Why do you say that?
Why would I want to have kids when I likely won't stay with the baby mama until the kids are 18? That's not just me. Probability dictates that any two people having kids in the West aren't likely to be together until all their kids reach 18. I don't want to put a child through what I went through.
Even more than that, why would you want to raise kids in this era? Even if things go smooth-sailing with your hypothetical wife, there’s no gauruntee that she’ll remain that way once she has kids. Even though it shouldn’t be this way, women put the kids first once she gives birth, even if she isn’t a good mom. They use that as an excuse to neglect you. Not to mention, women become the most horrible human beings when they’re pregnant. You know all those stories about horrible men leaving their women when they’re pregnant? Yeah, it’s not because the guy was actually horrible, it was because she was such a cunt towards him that he decided to leave.

I don’t want kids anymore myself. Even if I do find ‘the one’. It’s just not worth it. I know it’s selfish of me to say this, but I come first in my relationship, well before the kids. And it’s because of jealousy or anything like that, it’s because I want the same love, affection, intimacy, whatever you want to call it; I’d want it to be the same after kids as before, and I just don’t think that’s possible. Many women don’t even want to have kids nowadays either, less than men actually. I participated in a CollegePulse survey that asked a question regarding that and the sample size was like 16,000 college students all across the US. Results showed that 80% of men would like to have kids at some point in time, while only 60% of women. Those were the exact stats, I’m not making this up. It’s ****ed. And it came from women, not from men. Men haven’t changed much in the past decades, but women have. A lot. And they say “where have all the good men gone?” without realizing that we never went anywhere, it’s only their expectations that have gotten sky-high and THEY have changed. And they’ll think to themselves “if men were always like this, then I don’t want to have anything to do with them” even though women were happier in the pre-feminism day’s than even men.

It’s ****ed.
partying, drugs, promiscuity, strip clubs were nowhere near as prevalent or rather accepted before 1950. It's amazing how much of a change occurred in such a relatively small time frame.
100%. In the 1970s, you’d get arrested for swearing in a comedy club. It’s insane.
Having been around for awhile, I think the biggest contributing factors has been the internet and feminism, which led to mindset change in some females coupled with male pvssy enslavement and thirst. Which then spiralled to boring sex lives with each other(long term marriages) and divorce/single motherhood. Guys raised by single and often young mothers didn't really have the guidance or male mentor in their lives, further adding to the problems we face today. Gradually over time, female empowerment and those pro-females that pushed their agenda hard, led to certain females that should've never been in power of any kind(mental illness, jaded, hate for males, etc) to socially condition young males and weak older males to fit their agenda's and narratives. Couple that with the whole Social Media and Smartphones which made female pvssy more valuable than gold for some people.

I vividly remember in the late 90's when a coworker and I were having a conversation about buying a TV and he said he's not sure if he can get it and would have to ask the wife. I found that VERY weird but it was only the start of things to come from that point onward.

So bottom line is I blame technology for the decline to where we're at today.
Just to expand on the internet thing...
If we didn't have the internet:
- Guys wouldn't be able to look at unlimited porn and thus substituting and satisfying their sexual thirst and in return meeting and approaching less and less women.
- Women wouldn't be reading all this garbage and getting bad advice from other crazy b1tches on how to live their life.
- Women wouldn't be artifically pedestalized by having unlimited likes/attention/messages from said thirsty guys, further giving them a bigger ego and entitlement mentality.
- Looks would be a more realistic standard than it is today.
- Feminism would be kept more in check and in line with what originally Feminism was set out to do and not all these other motives perpetuated by the internet.
- People would be actually talking and meeting more in real life
- Less divorce as you wouldn't be looking at porn, looking for other options, fighting over financials to keep up with the Joneses(lavish things seen on the internet of what others have)
- The older generation didn't have "options" like we do on the internet now so if they got in a fight, they HAD to try to understand each other and work it out. Now adays if couples get in a fight, it's often more easy just to go on dating apps to find someone that will agree with you instead of trying to work it out with your partner. Its turned into viscious cycle where gals are fine until things arent' fine, then either gals or guys look elsewhere instead of making an effort to work it out.

There are countless other examples...
I disagree. I understand the premise of this, but all technology really did was exacerbate already-existing problems within society. I summed up the real problems with society in this post right here (that also links to another post):
Social media and the internet and technology, etc. just worsened what was already there, it didn’t cause anything in and of itself. These things simply just act as an amplifier to what already is. If times were good, then technology would have made them even better. The problem, however, wasn’t the smartphone or facebook or the internet, the problem was the culture. And THAT is what caused everything to go wrong.
 

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as long as you went to college
Not even dude, my grandpa told me that a high school diploma is all it took to live a middle-class earning in his days. College? Now that’s living the fine life.
I'm actually amazed that we don't have a suicide crisis.
We do have a suicide crisis. Men do, anyway...
You got it right with internet and feminism. Simping increased dramatically with technology. With social media and smartphones, women could get as much attention as they desired. Women have always craved attention. Social media and smartphones deliver an attention high for women on par with a cocaine high from the finest Colombian cocaine.

Ratios have gotten worse over time due to a number of factors. Technology does lower the cost of simping. It's easier to swipe right, slide into DMs, etc. than approach a woman in person. The ease of perceived access to women via technology, a lack of a masculine presence for men in their formative years, and bad ratios fuel the male thirst/beta simping pandemic. That pandemic is actually more prevalent globally than COVID.

In another post, I'm going to break down your tech examples. They were good.



This is one of those things that has good intentions. It theoretical seems good. In real life, it is not good. The theory is that couples should collaboratively discuss larger purchases with tied together finances.

In reality, the men become enslaved, henpecked, and often seeking female approval.

In the late 1990s, a good TV set maybe cost $700-$1,000 then, which might be more like $1,100-$1,400 today. TV set technology has changed a lot. Now, a good TV set runs $300-$600.
I’m saying it to the other guy and I’ll say to you: the problem is the culture. This stuff could have been used for good, but because people were bad due to a bad culture, it became used for bad. It was just an amplifier for what already was. Read my post that I linked above, I explain it all.
 

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Can confirm. In my early 20s, **** sucks here lmao don’t get me wrong, I could bag a few hoes if I really wanted to, but mostlf them are nasty and just ugly. The dudes I know that did constantly pull tail were only pulling the uggos too, so it’s not just me. Young women nowadays aren’t having a whole lot of sex like raging whores (well, most of them aren’t anyway), they’re just having enough to destroy their ability to love and pairbond lol

Yo wait what? For real?

This is the biggest thing right here. It’s your environment that gives you pussy more so than anything else in this world. I’ve realized this a while ago, but it’s true. I know a Pakistani dude who’s short and overweight, about 5’7ish who bags girls but they’re all kinda ugly, except for his now current gf who he had to basically steal from his best friend when they were going thru relationship issues with each other. Dude is a snake lol and and honestly not all that. I think it’s mostly just having the balls to actually go for it too and not care, it just makes you more prone to getting #MeToo’d and your life destroyed though.

All these problems are mostly prevalent in the US btw, I’d like to point out that the UK doesn’t have these issues to nearly the same extent that we do here.

Women don’t offer companionship in 2020. Women also aren’t women in 2020 either lol
So if women aren't "women" anymore, then whose gonna be the "woman"?

If it's your "environment" that gives you the puzzy, then what is it about the environments?? How do you set your self up in a favorable environment.
Why do you say that?

Even more than that, why would you want to raise kids in this era? Even if things go smooth-sailing with your hypothetical wife, there’s no gauruntee that she’ll remain that way once she has kids. Even though it shouldn’t be this way, women put the kids first once she gives birth, even if she isn’t a good mom. They use that as an excuse to neglect you. Not to mention, women become the most horrible human beings when they’re pregnant. You know all those stories about horrible men leaving their women when they’re pregnant? Yeah, it’s not because the guy was actually horrible, it was because she was such a cunt towards him that he decided to leave.

I don’t want kids anymore myself. Even if I do find ‘the one’. It’s just not worth it. I know it’s selfish of me to say this, but I come first in my relationship, well before the kids. And it’s because of jealousy or anything like that, it’s because I want the same love, affection, intimacy, whatever you want to call it; I’d want it to be the same after kids as before, and I just don’t think that’s possible. Many women don’t even want to have kids nowadays either, less than men actually. I participated in a CollegePulse survey that asked a question regarding that and the sample size was like 16,000 college students all across the US. Results showed that 80% of men would like to have kids at some point in time, while only 60% of women. Those were the exact stats, I’m not making this up. It’s ****ed. And it came from women, not from men. Men haven’t changed much in the past decades, but women have. A lot. And they say “where have all the good men gone?” without realizing that we never went anywhere, it’s only their expectations that have gotten sky-high and THEY have changed. And they’ll think to themselves “if men were always like this, then I don’t want to have anything to do with them” even though women were happier in the pre-feminism day’s than even men.
What all has "f*sm" changed for a man?

It’s ****ed.

100%. In the 1970s, you’d get arrested for swearing in a comedy club. It’s insane.


I disagree. I understand the premise of this, but all technology really did was exacerbate already-existing problems within society. I summed up the real problems with society in this post right here (that also links to another post):
Social media and the internet and technology, etc. just worsened what was already there, it didn’t cause anything in and of itself. These things simply just act as an amplifier to what already is. If times were good, then technology would have made them even better. The problem, however, wasn’t the smartphone or facebook or the internet, the problem was the culture. And THAT is what caused everything to go wrong.
So what games and timewasters are "amplified" due to technology? What is a man to do? How can a man be a "man" if the women are no longer "women"?
 

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Bro I always enjoy reading your posts, the slang and rhetoric you use in your posts are top notch, and the way you write is always a ‘get up & go’ militant mentality motivating us to just do. Just thought I’d tip my hat to you brother
 

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So if women aren't "women" anymore, then whose gonna be the "woman".
Unfortunately, no one. The closest you can get to it are flamboyant gay men, but they’re more about the “fabulous” female types and getting dominated rather than actually being nurturing and feminine etc.

Besides, they’re not exactly a viable option for us straight men lol
What all has "f*sm" changed for a man?
I don’t follow what you mean by this
So what games and timewasters are "amplified" due to technology? What is a man to do? How can a man be a "man" if the women are no longer "women"?
Yes, they’re amplified. Before, boys used to go outside, run around, and play kick-the-can. But nowadays, parks are dead, TV is spilling soy, and sports are becoming a thing of the past.

As for what a man is to do—you get back to your roots. Exercise is a must. Every man must lift, no questions asked. Getting into self-defense as your form of cardio, but also to learn how to fight is a long lost art we can do. Getting into guns is another; it’s akin to the old caveman concept of “who can pick up the biggest stick”. Joking and jesting with your boys and just shooting the shit is another, but unfortunately no one has friends anymore because it’s 2020. Plus, dudes are snakes. Smashing women when you get the chance is another bc it’s the epitome of sexual dimorphism, but you shouldn’t have to rely on them to define your manliness. It’s about dominance, and a man must be dominant. But when she’s the only thing you rely on to exert dominance, it’s not enough. Soon you’ll need to start conquering something more to be more dominant, which is why prison inmates **** other men even though they’re straight. No other outlet for masculinity. Getting into auto repair and construction work is good too. You don’t need to do it as a job, but just know wtf to do. Renovate your home yourself, another long lost art of manliness. I’m trying to get into this stuff myself but it’s hard because you need an “in”, so to speak. Tinkering with little toys, that’s good too. The biggest thing is the social aspect of it if I’m being honest, but that’s been fading for decades since individualism first took off RIP

There’s still things you can do.
 

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Unfortunately, no one. The closest you can get to it are flamboyant gay men, but they’re more about the “fabulous” female types and getting dominated rather than actually being nurturing and feminine etc.

Besides, they’re not exactly a viable option for us straight men lol

I don’t follow what you mean by this

Yes, they’re amplified. Before, boys used to go outside, run around, and play kick-the-can. But nowadays, parks are dead, TV is spilling soy, and sports are becoming a thing of the past.

As for what a man is to do—you get back to your roots. Exercise is a must. Every man must lift, no questions asked. Getting into self-defense as your form of cardio, but also to learn how to fight is a long lost art we can do. Getting into guns is another; it’s akin to the old caveman concept of “who can pick up the biggest stick”. Joking and jesting with your boys and just shooting the shit is another, but unfortunately no one has friends anymore because it’s 2020. Plus, dudes are snakes. Smashing women when you get the chance is another bc it’s the epitome of sexual dimorphism, but you shouldn’t have to rely on them to define your manliness. It’s about dominance, and a man must be dominant. But when she’s the only thing you rely on to exert dominance, it’s not enough. Soon you’ll need to start conquering something more to be more dominant, which is why prison inmates **** other men even though they’re straight. No other outlet for masculinity. Getting into auto repair and construction work is good too. You don’t need to do it as a job, but just know wtf to do. Renovate your home yourself, another long lost art of manliness. I’m trying to get into this stuff myself but it’s hard because you need an “in”, so to speak. Tinkering with little toys, that’s good too. The biggest thing is the social aspect of it if I’m being honest, but that’s been fading for decades since individualism first took off RIP

There’s still things you can do.
So how do we deal with females who want to be "dominant" and not "controlled" by men? Other then avoiding these women? These women still have sex, still have mens they admire and want to be with?

What are the "new rules" for being with them? If we are on a "prison planet", and these women are even "small aggressive men", do we just have to be an even more dominant man who these small men are "punks" to? ( I'm reaching ). I've heard legit pimps ( they can be really bad people I know ), call their hos "punks", like it's a little man who will slit his throat if he turns his back.

These little "punks" the pimp realize can dominate most avg men and take his cash and bleed him for whatever emotional support and some physical support she might need. Does that dynamic have any bearing on what needs to be done?

I still have a few females who want to be "giving" and "feminine" for me, although they can be "bossy" and domineering to others. I don't have to force them to do it, they want to do it for me.
 

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(....) These women still have sex, still have mens they admire and want to be with
(...) we just have to be an even more dominant man (...)

I still have a few females who want to be "giving" and "feminine" for me, (...) I don't have to force them to do it, they want to do it for me.
I wish men who think like this could actually write concrete and specific examples they are genuinely experiencing, so that other men know what to also look for.
Example: today this woman dropped off lasagna
Example: yesterday that woman wouldn't leave my bathroom until she was satisfied it was thoroughly cleaned and I didn't ask her to do it.
Example: last Saturday at an event, a woman deferred to me for my knowledgeable opinion on such and such instead of spouting tough, empty talk like a feminist did at the same event

etc etc
 

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I wish men who think like this could actually write concrete and specific examples they are genuinely experiencing, so that other men know what to also look for.
Example: today this woman dropped off lasagna
Example: yesterday that woman wouldn't leave my bathroom until she was satisfied it was thoroughly cleaned and I didn't ask her to do it.
Example: last Saturday at an event, a woman deferred to me for my knowledgeable opinion on such and such instead of spouting tough, empty talk like a feminist did at the same event

etc etc
I think alot of us take a bite of the "negative" side of the picture and spend more time talking about it. Versus interacting with positive situations and talking about that. Most men on this site and other men who wouldn't be caught dead on this site agree there has been a change in all of society.
 
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I think alot of us take a bite of the "negative" side of the picture and spend more time talking about it. Versus interacting with positive situations and talking about that. Most men on this site and other men who wouldn't be caught dead on this site agree there has been a change in all of society.
ok, I figured out after a few minutes it was going to be all sex related examples and made a bet with myself I wouldn't see any concrete, specific examples of feminine women acting feminine. lol. its ok, I get that concentrating on negatives keeps us all indignant and stronger.
Took me awhile to get this.
 

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ok, I figured out after a few minutes it was going to be all sex related examples and made a bet with myself I wouldn't see any concrete, specific examples of feminine women acting feminine. lol. its ok, I get that concentrating on negatives keeps us all indignant and stronger.
Took me awhile to get this.
Very good words. We need to find a way to see and live the positive and achieve growth and increase daily. Focusing on the negative side like you say keeps us indigant.
 

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So how do we deal with females who want to be "dominant" and not "controlled" by men? Other then avoiding these women? These women still have sex, still have mens they admire and want to be with?
The men they want don’t want them for anything more than sex. Either make yourself one of those guys, or don’t.
What are the "new rules" for being with them? If we are on a "prison planet", and these women are even "small aggressive men", do we just have to be an even more dominant man who these small men are "punks" to? ( I'm reaching ). I've heard legit pimps ( they can be really bad people I know ), call their hos "punks", like it's a little man who will slit his throat if he turns his back.

These little "punks" the pimp realize can dominate most avg men and take his cash and bleed him for whatever emotional support and some physical support she might need. Does that dynamic have any bearing on what needs to be done?
I don’t see what you’re getting at here, unless you’re saying to beat them with a coat hanger lol I mean if it works, it works. You do have to be more dominant no matter what. It’s just that the type of dominant you’d have to be would be like prison inmate dominant, and getting to that level of testosterone makes you much more prone to go to prison cuz then you don’t care about the laws or anything anymore.
I wish men who think like this could actually write concrete and specific examples they are genuinely experiencing, so that other men know what to also look for.
Example: today this woman dropped off lasagna
Example: yesterday that woman wouldn't leave my bathroom until she was satisfied it was thoroughly cleaned and I didn't ask her to do it.
Example: last Saturday at an event, a woman deferred to me for my knowledgeable opinion on such and such instead of spouting tough, empty talk like a feminist did at the same event

etc etc
Lol no lynx, you want it for yourself to understand us men better.
I still have a few females who want to be "giving" and "feminine" for me, although they can be "bossy" and domineering to others. I don't have to force them to do it, they want to do it for me.
Isn’t that just a temporary act to win you over though? Like they’ll give you **** later on once they got you under their hook.
 

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The men they want don’t want them for anything more than sex. Either make yourself one of those guys, or don’t.

I don’t see what you’re getting at here, unless you’re saying to beat them with a coat hanger lol I mean if it works, it works. You do have to be more dominant no matter what. It’s just that the type of dominant you’d have to be would be like prison inmate dominant, and getting to that level of testosterone makes you much more prone to go to prison cuz then you don’t care about the laws or anything anymore.

Lol no lynx, you want it for yourself to understand us men better.

Isn’t that just a temporary act to win you over though? Like they’ll give you **** later on once they got you under their hook.
Not all of them bro. Some women do choose to "submit" to certain men. So they don't want to "drive" the relationship, they just want things to go smoothly and not have to worry about it.
 

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The men they want don’t want them for anything more than sex. Either make yourself one of those guys, or don’t.

I don’t see what you’re getting at here, unless you’re saying to beat them with a coat hanger lol I mean if it works, it works. You do have to be more dominant no matter what. It’s just that the type of dominant you’d have to be would be like prison inmate dominant, and getting to that level of testosterone makes you much more prone to go to prison cuz then you don’t care about the laws or anything anymore.

Lol no lynx, you want it for yourself to understand us men better.

Isn’t that just a temporary act to win you over though? Like they’ll give you **** later on once they got you under their hook.
it is temporary, which is why some of us can't think of many examples outside of sex submission.
And you're right Double, I do ask for me:cool: first then for men second.

Imagine there was a description of the concrete, specific things and behaviours a feminine, submissive woman does and what men could be looking for to know they've come across a nurturing woman?
the lasagne, bathroom cleaning or public debate deferral thing.
 

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Not all of them bro. Some women do choose to "submit" to certain men. So they don't want to "drive" the relationship, they just want things to go smoothly and not have to worry about it.
I’m just jaded at this point cuz I don’t see it that way. Female neuroticism always takes over eventually to give you unpassable shit tests. I still try to find a way to pass them, somehow lol. But it’s still idiotic nonetheless. I like flirty playfulness and fun, but mindgames make me wanna walk. I disagree that it’s because of evolution, I think it’s just because of waning attraction. Instant gratification and all that; things run smoothly at first during the honeymoon phase, then they fizzle out. Boom. Attraction lost.

A lot of times it’s due to built up resentment for you not being completely wrapped around her finger though too. But from what I’ve found, it’s just an insecurity on her end that you don’t love her. God forbid you ever say those 3 cursed words though and you bet your ass she’s ghost. Stupid female monkey brain hamstring. You show that you love her via your actions, not through words or things. Biggest thing here. Never verbalize it. Unless she’s the one. And even then, it ain’t worth the risk.

It’s honestly better in this day and age to be gay. Greater submissiveness from those faggots considering the way that they are. Probably more romantic too. Just not viable for me lol. But I remember my dad telling me about a customer of his who basically turned gay just so that he could get some (he was incel before it was called that). Not even because he hates women or anything, just because he wants something lol. Really makes me wanna puke lowkey but hey, who am I to judge...

I know they say “enjoy the decline” tongue-in-cheek but there’s an element of seriousness to it. This is a game that has end game, so no one’s winning. I want out, cuz I’m not really enjoying this ride RIP.
 

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I’m just jaded at this point cuz I don’t see it that way. Female neuroticism always takes over eventually to give you unpassable shit tests. I still try to find a way to pass them, somehow lol. But it’s still idiotic nonetheless. I like flirty playfulness and fun, but mindgames make me wanna walk. I disagree that it’s because of evolution, I think it’s just because of waning attraction. Instant gratification and all that; things run smoothly at first during the honeymoon phase, then they fizzle out. Boom. Attraction lost.

A lot of times it’s due to built up resentment for you not being completely wrapped around her finger though too. But from what I’ve found, it’s just an insecurity on her end that you don’t love her. God forbid you ever say those 3 cursed words though and you bet your ass she’s ghost. Stupid female monkey brain hamstring. You show that you love her via your actions, not through words or things. Biggest thing here. Never verbalize it. Unless she’s the one. And even then, it ain’t worth the risk.

It’s honestly better in this day and age to be gay. Greater submissiveness from those faggots considering the way that they are. Probably more romantic too. Just not viable for me lol. But I remember my dad telling me about a customer of his who basically turned gay just so that he could get some (he was incel before it was called that). Not even because he hates women or anything, just because he wants something lol. Really makes me wanna puke lowkey but hey, who am I to judge...

I know they say “enjoy the decline” tongue-in-cheek but there’s an element of seriousness to it. This is a game that has end game, so no one’s winning. I want out, cuz I’m not really enjoying this ride RIP.
Your making it sound like an impossible shyt sandwhich!
 

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I wish men who think like this could actually write concrete and specific examples they are genuinely experiencing, so that other men know what to also look for.
I can think of one example off the top of my head. I was at Portaventura World and the management are snakes who monetise the front row on their coasters, forcing you to pay if you want to skip the long queues and/or ride the front row.

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I waited till after dark to use my front row pass I'd purchased, and was paired in the front row with a cute Spanish girl, who seemed both excited and nervous. As we climbed the lift I told her to stick her arms and her legs up, which feels like you're falling standing up, and hold them up. "Ok, I trust you" she said in perfect English.

She didn't manage to keep them up, but she tried. Waiting on the brake run we talked briefly, but I didn't apply any kino sadly. As we pulled into the station her boyfriend was waiting for her. She disappeared without saying goodbye.
 

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I can think of one example off the top of my head. I was at Portaventura World and the management are snakes who monetise the front row on their coasters, forcing you to pay if you want to skip the long queues and/or ride the front row.

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I waited till after dark to use my front row pass I'd purchased, and was paired in the front row with a cute Spanish girl, who seemed both excited and nervous. As we climbed the lift I told her to stick her arms and her legs up, which feels like you're falling standing up, and hold them up. "Ok, I trust you" she said in perfect English.

She didn't manage to keep them up, but she tried. Waiting on the brake run we talked briefly, but I didn't apply any kino sadly. As we pulled into the station her boyfriend was waiting for her. She disappeared without saying goodbye.
*so trusting you implicitly because you're a masculine man

This is a gold example Visionist. That lady would strike me as feminine too if I was sitting behind you both on the ride and overheard this.
Thanks, I guess I know what feminine is, just surprised men don't or can't even envision what they'd like to see in a feminine woman with concrete, specific examples...even sex examples.

Thanks again, I agree.
 

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Your making it sound like an impossible shyt sandwhich!
Idk bro, if I found a beautiful and sexy young woman who will submit to me just like that, I’d probably spend a lot less time on here. But even if she did, like if she submit to me and would be sweet and feminine to me but is a bitch to others, that wouldn’t sit right with me. I want someone who is actually good as a person. I swear to God, when I was younger, I was like that. Naively innocent and a good person. And I thought others were too. I’m still looking for that, that sincerity. Lord knows I had my demons too, but those came about due to environment and family, not my own doing. I’ve since worked on all of them. But man it’s still sad. It bothers me because I used to be the type of dude where if I was married, and had a pornstar-looking hottie come into me and straddle me when no one is around and ask me to **** her, I’d have been like “no I’m married”. I’d be kicking myself for the rest of my life after, but I still wouldn’t cheat. And I was like this even after I was redpilled for a little while. But I realized the vast majority of women wouldn’t do that for me, they wouldn’t stop themselves if they were in the same situation. And the thing is, if you actually were to ask any of these women about this, of course they’d say they wouldn’t cheat; most of them would even believe that too. But that’s just because they imagine themselves getting cheated on, and how they’d feel if it happened to them. In reality, they’re just saying cheating is wrong against them. It’s not that they actually are loyal, they just get more fiery jealous than men. They just project that fiery jealousy onto the act of cheating, and assume they would ‘never’ cheat under any circumstances because when you ask them this, they think of themselves getting cheated on, this affecting their mood to have such a strong aversion to cheating. But if you put them in a different mood and play your cards right for long enough, all women will cheat. Bar none. Bar none. Bar none. And I know for a FACT that there are men out there who wouldn’t cheat even if they wanted to because I used to be one of those guys, and also because I still know of quite a few who are still like that. Women? I haven’t met one.

At this point, if I were in a relationship with a woman, I’d cheat on her every chance I got. Your average American woman doesn’t deserve loyalty, they don’t even deserve to know that they’re being cheated on lmao

I’m not in a relationship anyway, and I still am not at the point yet where I’d straight up lie to a girl to get some tail, nor would I actually go out of my way to cheat on a girl (yet). But after a year or so, I really don’t think I can handle this much longer. I’d just have to become an evil POS. I’m hoping it doesn’t get to that but **** me man, it’s a cold war out there lol
 
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