MatureDJ
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
article: Five Reasons Your Wife Won't Have Sex with You
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
mrgoodstuff
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Umm no. Most of that shyt if you do it, it kills the masculine feminine polarity and she'll lose attraction.
resilient
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Terrible blue pill advice, lol. She needs the husband to do things that regain her interest level. Vacuuming the house, laundry, and pandering to every whim and she’ll lose respect for him.
It would be more beneficial to work on himself to raise her interest in attraction. Being lazy though will drive her interest level down fast in general...
It would be more beneficial to work on himself to raise her interest in attraction. Being lazy though will drive her interest level down fast in general...
Do you guys really believe doing dishes and laundry somehow lowers your masculinity? How weak is your frame that keeping your house in order lowers your attractiveness to a woman? Now, I'm not saying do everything for a woman, she should be putting in as much work and more if you're the one working fifty hours a week. But I think being sloppy at home is weak and that's why women start complaining. It's not about you pandering to her every whim, it's about you not handling your life. The masculine/feminine dynamic is not about housework/career, it's about the meta narrative of your relationship. It's about being a leader. If a woman is being unreasonable and you're doing all the work, then yeah, put your foot down and put it down hard. But don't hand over the running of your castle to the woman either. You are the leader, act like it.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
marmel75
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If their wives wont have sex with them its because they dont feel they can get it anywhere else, they arent attracted to them anymore because they have gotten fat and out of shape or they can't fvck good to make them want that d!ck.
My wife knows better on the first one, she definitely still wants to fvck me and I still put it down like thunder.
My wife knows better on the first one, she definitely still wants to fvck me and I still put it down like thunder.
mrgoodstuff
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You can do some chores and help out . But you shouldn't do more than her . You also shouldn't Dominate at doing the traditional female chores, let her do it too.
Never do these chores hoping she will like you more. That mindset drives down attraction
Be focused on your purpose and hobbies, have passion there. Use time with her sparingly and careful with your attention and validation.
Fvck her often and how you want it .
Never do these chores hoping she will like you more. That mindset drives down attraction
Be focused on your purpose and hobbies, have passion there. Use time with her sparingly and careful with your attention and validation.
Fvck her often and how you want it .
Who Dares Win
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I'm fine throwing out the trash, deal with the garden or move heavy weights...basically anything that is too heavy or too dangerous for her.
But if something is boring or feminine, no way I'm gonna do it...never received complains about it btw.
But if something is boring or feminine, no way I'm gonna do it...never received complains about it btw.
mrgoodstuff
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The key is that even if you were okay with the other stuff you have to manage it because it truly can fvck up the masculine feminine polarity in the household.
Some of us guys were trying to.be overly Supportive and did this by accident .
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Agree on that, sometime even if you wanna help, such help will be counterproductive for both.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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I’ll do the dishes, etc. at MY house but there will never be another OUR house for me to do them at. I’m at that point where I still date but will never live with another woman ever again. There’s nothing in that deal for me.