MatureDJ
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
article: Five Reasons Your Wife Won't Have Sex with You
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
mrgoodstuff
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Umm no. Most of that shyt if you do it, it kills the masculine feminine polarity and she'll lose attraction.
resilient
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Terrible blue pill advice, lol. She needs the husband to do things that regain her interest level. Vacuuming the house, laundry, and pandering to every whim and she’ll lose respect for him.
It would be more beneficial to work on himself to raise her interest in attraction. Being lazy though will drive her interest level down fast in general...
It would be more beneficial to work on himself to raise her interest in attraction. Being lazy though will drive her interest level down fast in general...
Do you guys really believe doing dishes and laundry somehow lowers your masculinity? How weak is your frame that keeping your house in order lowers your attractiveness to a woman? Now, I'm not saying do everything for a woman, she should be putting in as much work and more if you're the one working fifty hours a week. But I think being sloppy at home is weak and that's why women start complaining. It's not about you pandering to her every whim, it's about you not handling your life. The masculine/feminine dynamic is not about housework/career, it's about the meta narrative of your relationship. It's about being a leader. If a woman is being unreasonable and you're doing all the work, then yeah, put your foot down and put it down hard. But don't hand over the running of your castle to the woman either. You are the leader, act like it.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
marmel75
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If their wives wont have sex with them its because they dont feel they can get it anywhere else, they arent attracted to them anymore because they have gotten fat and out of shape or they can't fvck good to make them want that d!ck.
My wife knows better on the first one, she definitely still wants to fvck me and I still put it down like thunder.
My wife knows better on the first one, she definitely still wants to fvck me and I still put it down like thunder.
mrgoodstuff
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You can do some chores and help out . But you shouldn't do more than her . You also shouldn't Dominate at doing the traditional female chores, let her do it too.
Never do these chores hoping she will like you more. That mindset drives down attraction
Be focused on your purpose and hobbies, have passion there. Use time with her sparingly and careful with your attention and validation.
Fvck her often and how you want it .
Never do these chores hoping she will like you more. That mindset drives down attraction
Be focused on your purpose and hobbies, have passion there. Use time with her sparingly and careful with your attention and validation.
Fvck her often and how you want it .
Who Dares Win
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I'm fine throwing out the trash, deal with the garden or move heavy weights...basically anything that is too heavy or too dangerous for her.
But if something is boring or feminine, no way I'm gonna do it...never received complains about it btw.
But if something is boring or feminine, no way I'm gonna do it...never received complains about it btw.
mrgoodstuff
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The key is that even if you were okay with the other stuff you have to manage it because it truly can fvck up the masculine feminine polarity in the household.
Some of us guys were trying to.be overly Supportive and did this by accident .
Who Dares Win
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Agree on that, sometime even if you wanna help, such help will be counterproductive for both.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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I’ll do the dishes, etc. at MY house but there will never be another OUR house for me to do them at. I’m at that point where I still date but will never live with another woman ever again. There’s nothing in that deal for me.